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drummerswife
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As those of you reading my posts know I had an appointment with Dr. Katy this afternoon. My friend took me there because the bus stops are still buried in snow here and waiting in the street is just dangerous.
As I have said, I am so proud of the progress I have made in the past year and I walked ino the office with nothing more than a really minor nervous feeling wondering what the x-ray would show.
I checked in at the desk and sat down and waited. I heard my name called and looked towards the doorway expecting to see DR. Katy's assistant, a really sweet girl naned Kayme that I have come to know this past year. While we waited for DR. Katy, we would exchange briefs chats about current events. She told me about her goal of going to dental school and I rold her about my quest for a better job. Its become a comfortable and familiar routine. Kayme knew and understood how I like things like how far back to lean the chair so it didnt scare me, etc.
The lady calling my name wasnt Kayme. She was someone I had never seen before. And I immediately felt a wave of anxiety sweep over me. Who are you? AS far as I've come, I still dont do well with sudden changes. I said somewhar irritably "Who are you? and where is Kayme?" She told me her name and she said she was DR. Katy's assistant as Kayme had left to go school full time. I had spoken to Dr. Katy yesterday and she didnt tell me about having new staff. I was not pleased. AS we were walking back to the room, I was feeling really nervous now and I said to her "Do you know about me?" She shook her head "Know what?" Right about then another woman who I had also not seen before walked into the room. She was another new asistant. My hands started to sweat and I told her "For the past year, Dr. Katy and I have been working on my dental phobia and I have made a lot of progress but new people made really nervous especialy since I didnt know Dr. Katy had changed staff" She said "so you get a little nervous thats okay" No, lady, you're not listening to me. "A littke nervous? YOu should have seen me a year ago. I couldnt even walk in the door" She nodded and asked me if she could do a couple x-rays and I responded "Where is Dr.Katy? " She said she would be there in a minute so I let her take the x-rays and then I waited, I had briught a gift for Dr. Katy, a plaque I had made on which I had composed a poem about how she has changed my life.
A minute or two later, Dr. Katy came in and greeted mr with a warm hug. I
asked "Who are these people? You know new people make me nervous because they dont know how we do things. I asked her if she knew about me and she said no" DR. Katy smiled and said "I talked to you yesterday didnt I tell you?" I said "No, you didnt" She looked a bit sheepish saying "I'm sorry dear. So let me tell you about them so you will know" So she told me about her new staff saying that both her previous assistants had gone back to school. And then she smiled braodly at me and said to her new assistant "Do you remember the commerical we did about my patient who is my greatest success story as she is the most terrified patient I have ever had?" The assistant nodded "Oh, yeah I remember that" I raised my hand and Dr. Katie patted my shoulder saying "Well, this is her" I saw the look of recognition and understanding cross her face. "Oh, my that was you huh. Okay, well its nice to meet you" It turns out this lady has actually worked with Dr. Katy for awhile but ony part time which is why I have never met her.
I gave Dr. Katy the gift I had made for her and she was deeply touched. She said she couldnt wait to show it to the other docs in the office. With a giggle she said "They'll be jealous!" And then she said seriously "This is truly priceless and I will treasure it" I said "on those days when things dont go well and you wonder why you do this, let this remind you" Giving me another hug, she placed it on the shelf next to the pictures of her children. What a place of honor, I thought. With that done, she said " Now, lets talk about this pain you are havng"
The x-rays, she said showed no absess so she poked around a little and said the back molar that broke is not in great shape and she is not sure if there is infection or not. So what we decided to do is try antibiotics and pain meds for a week and see if that takes away the pain. If the pain does not go away in a week with antibiotics, I will need a root canal. Dr. Katy said this is a routine procedure but she feels that even thoughI have made tremendous progress, my dental trauma has not yet healed quite enough to do a procedure like this without sedation so if this should be neccessary, I will have another visit with Prince Valium. If the pain goes away, then we will just do a crown prep and I wont need seadtives for that, I am so blessed she cares about my feelings so much.
As I have said, I am so proud of the progress I have made in the past year and I walked ino the office with nothing more than a really minor nervous feeling wondering what the x-ray would show.
I checked in at the desk and sat down and waited. I heard my name called and looked towards the doorway expecting to see DR. Katy's assistant, a really sweet girl naned Kayme that I have come to know this past year. While we waited for DR. Katy, we would exchange briefs chats about current events. She told me about her goal of going to dental school and I rold her about my quest for a better job. Its become a comfortable and familiar routine. Kayme knew and understood how I like things like how far back to lean the chair so it didnt scare me, etc.
The lady calling my name wasnt Kayme. She was someone I had never seen before. And I immediately felt a wave of anxiety sweep over me. Who are you? AS far as I've come, I still dont do well with sudden changes. I said somewhar irritably "Who are you? and where is Kayme?" She told me her name and she said she was DR. Katy's assistant as Kayme had left to go school full time. I had spoken to Dr. Katy yesterday and she didnt tell me about having new staff. I was not pleased. AS we were walking back to the room, I was feeling really nervous now and I said to her "Do you know about me?" She shook her head "Know what?" Right about then another woman who I had also not seen before walked into the room. She was another new asistant. My hands started to sweat and I told her "For the past year, Dr. Katy and I have been working on my dental phobia and I have made a lot of progress but new people made really nervous especialy since I didnt know Dr. Katy had changed staff" She said "so you get a little nervous thats okay" No, lady, you're not listening to me. "A littke nervous? YOu should have seen me a year ago. I couldnt even walk in the door" She nodded and asked me if she could do a couple x-rays and I responded "Where is Dr.Katy? " She said she would be there in a minute so I let her take the x-rays and then I waited, I had briught a gift for Dr. Katy, a plaque I had made on which I had composed a poem about how she has changed my life.
A minute or two later, Dr. Katy came in and greeted mr with a warm hug. I
asked "Who are these people? You know new people make me nervous because they dont know how we do things. I asked her if she knew about me and she said no" DR. Katy smiled and said "I talked to you yesterday didnt I tell you?" I said "No, you didnt" She looked a bit sheepish saying "I'm sorry dear. So let me tell you about them so you will know" So she told me about her new staff saying that both her previous assistants had gone back to school. And then she smiled braodly at me and said to her new assistant "Do you remember the commerical we did about my patient who is my greatest success story as she is the most terrified patient I have ever had?" The assistant nodded "Oh, yeah I remember that" I raised my hand and Dr. Katie patted my shoulder saying "Well, this is her" I saw the look of recognition and understanding cross her face. "Oh, my that was you huh. Okay, well its nice to meet you" It turns out this lady has actually worked with Dr. Katy for awhile but ony part time which is why I have never met her.
I gave Dr. Katy the gift I had made for her and she was deeply touched. She said she couldnt wait to show it to the other docs in the office. With a giggle she said "They'll be jealous!" And then she said seriously "This is truly priceless and I will treasure it" I said "on those days when things dont go well and you wonder why you do this, let this remind you" Giving me another hug, she placed it on the shelf next to the pictures of her children. What a place of honor, I thought. With that done, she said " Now, lets talk about this pain you are havng"
The x-rays, she said showed no absess so she poked around a little and said the back molar that broke is not in great shape and she is not sure if there is infection or not. So what we decided to do is try antibiotics and pain meds for a week and see if that takes away the pain. If the pain does not go away in a week with antibiotics, I will need a root canal. Dr. Katy said this is a routine procedure but she feels that even thoughI have made tremendous progress, my dental trauma has not yet healed quite enough to do a procedure like this without sedation so if this should be neccessary, I will have another visit with Prince Valium. If the pain goes away, then we will just do a crown prep and I wont need seadtives for that, I am so blessed she cares about my feelings so much.