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BundleOfNerves
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Folks, I really need some advice about something that's upsetting me and causing my anxiety to rear its ugly head again.
I've seen Dr B twice now and have been quite happy with her as a dentist. Her manner is friendly, reassuring and gentle, and although her prices (to me) seem a little on the high side, I figured it was a small price to pay to feel comfortable.
However, twice so far this week, her receptionists have called me asking me to make an appointment for a deep cleaning (prophylaxis) and each time, I have explained that that is a procedure I only want to have done once all the other "urgent" things have been dealt with (such as broken fillings being replaced and cavaties filled, etc).
But they won't give up.
I called them back today after they left a message on my voicemail, and after explaining once again that I want "only urgent" things dealt with first, I was told that the deep cleaning IS "urgent" and that they "need to make sure the gums are healthy before starting anything else!"
So now I am confused as hell, because the dentist (Dr J) who extracted my tooth last week, told me that I DO NOT need the deep cleaning yet, and to wait 6 months to see if flossing and regular brushing will help prevent gum disease from getting any worse.
WHO THE HELL DO I BELIEVE??????????
I cannot afford to have un-necessary treatments right now, but I truly feel as though I am being bullied by telemarketers!
Do I have the right to say "NO!" or should I just go along with whatever they say I need?
I am more than aware of the stigma attached to British dentists and the British peoples' teeth, but it's actually a complete old wives tale!!
The British have no worse teeth than any one else, but I have NEVER heard of a prophylaxis until I came to the States (and I used to be a dental nurse!!)
I feel so pathetic having no assertiveness - I really do literally feel like they're trying to sell me something and not taking no for an answer. How can they tell me that a cleaning is "more important" than treating painful cavaties?????
Please help me, someone, I feel as nervous again now as I did in my very first post on here. I really want to cry
I've seen Dr B twice now and have been quite happy with her as a dentist. Her manner is friendly, reassuring and gentle, and although her prices (to me) seem a little on the high side, I figured it was a small price to pay to feel comfortable.
However, twice so far this week, her receptionists have called me asking me to make an appointment for a deep cleaning (prophylaxis) and each time, I have explained that that is a procedure I only want to have done once all the other "urgent" things have been dealt with (such as broken fillings being replaced and cavaties filled, etc).
But they won't give up.
I called them back today after they left a message on my voicemail, and after explaining once again that I want "only urgent" things dealt with first, I was told that the deep cleaning IS "urgent" and that they "need to make sure the gums are healthy before starting anything else!"
So now I am confused as hell, because the dentist (Dr J) who extracted my tooth last week, told me that I DO NOT need the deep cleaning yet, and to wait 6 months to see if flossing and regular brushing will help prevent gum disease from getting any worse.
WHO THE HELL DO I BELIEVE??????????
I cannot afford to have un-necessary treatments right now, but I truly feel as though I am being bullied by telemarketers!
Do I have the right to say "NO!" or should I just go along with whatever they say I need?
I am more than aware of the stigma attached to British dentists and the British peoples' teeth, but it's actually a complete old wives tale!!
The British have no worse teeth than any one else, but I have NEVER heard of a prophylaxis until I came to the States (and I used to be a dental nurse!!)
I feel so pathetic having no assertiveness - I really do literally feel like they're trying to sell me something and not taking no for an answer. How can they tell me that a cleaning is "more important" than treating painful cavaties?????
Please help me, someone, I feel as nervous again now as I did in my very first post on here. I really want to cry
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