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StillAfraid
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I have not been to a dentist in 25 years. I'm am near tears just thinking about it. Both my parents lost their teeth at young ages and I never remember my parents going in for cleanings. The last time I had an appointment, I was about 13 and I was so upset my Dad let me skip it. That was my last cleaning. I know I have gum problems, and my fillings fell out years ago. I brush, but my roots are showing and I have sensitive teeth a lot of the time.
I am not afraid of the pain, needles, I am scared out of my mind to loose a tooth, either through extraction or tooth loss. When I was a child my dentist pulled 4 of my teeth and filled 4 others and when I cried he shook me so hard. I got off easy. He slapped another kid right across the face. To this day I cannot go back to any dentist. My kids have excellent teeth, never a cavity, but I'm ashamed that I'm going to be loose teeth at middle age and end up with dentures. I remember my mother so young having a set and I was always bothered by them. I'm afraid the first visit the dentist is going to tell me I have to have teeth pulled, especially the front ones. I cannot face that. My husband had two back teeth pulled (the rest are in perfect shape) and it was all I could do for three days to now throw up. I could barely get near him. I couldn't be in the room when he cared for the healing of gums where the teeth had been taken out.
I honestly don't know what to do. My kid's dentist is kind and patient, but I don't know how I can walk it and sit in that chair.
I am not afraid of the pain, needles, I am scared out of my mind to loose a tooth, either through extraction or tooth loss. When I was a child my dentist pulled 4 of my teeth and filled 4 others and when I cried he shook me so hard. I got off easy. He slapped another kid right across the face. To this day I cannot go back to any dentist. My kids have excellent teeth, never a cavity, but I'm ashamed that I'm going to be loose teeth at middle age and end up with dentures. I remember my mother so young having a set and I was always bothered by them. I'm afraid the first visit the dentist is going to tell me I have to have teeth pulled, especially the front ones. I cannot face that. My husband had two back teeth pulled (the rest are in perfect shape) and it was all I could do for three days to now throw up. I could barely get near him. I couldn't be in the room when he cared for the healing of gums where the teeth had been taken out.
I honestly don't know what to do. My kid's dentist is kind and patient, but I don't know how I can walk it and sit in that chair.