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Delsol
Former Member
Hi I'm Delsoland i'm a new member to this site,
I AM 28yrs old and have become so desperate for help that I turned to the internet and thankfully I found you guys. While reading some of the advices you'll gave, even if it was not for me, made me feel so much better that I decided to join and seek assurance and advice also.
My Story:
The first time i visited the Dentist I was comprehensive at best and after i came out there I was downright scared and decided that this is not for me. When i sat in the Dentist chair i remember she explaining to me that my teeth are so clean and my gums are very healthy but my teeth should not be so close together that floss cannot pass through(I had no space between my teeth, No cavaties, no pain). I told her that i just wanted a check up to see if anything was ok on the inside. Big mistake. After she finished with me, There was so much blood and I could not eat solid food for a couple day. I was told later that this should not be so. I then developed this fear if Dentist that I never went back until a year and a half ago. which brings me to where i am today. My gum began hurting and i was encourgaed by a friend to visit his dentist who he said was lovely. I was scared and it took me at least a week of trying everything I could find over the counter. when i finally went i was very suprise. she was great and noticed my fears immediately. I told her what happen and she began my working on me. She was and still is great. But then after her first assessment, she informed me that because of the lenght of time between checks that i had major problems in my gums (still no cavities). She told me that my root was very brittle and is breaking off, but with constance cleaning she will be able to slow down the breaking. Fast track to now.... I was just informed that i needs to see a Speciality brcause the Dentist can no longer help. I am lossing bone too fast. (After almost 2 years now they realize that). I am so scared now that i can't stop crying and freaking out. I went to another dentist(I lost most of my fear for them) for another opinion and the news was worst. He informed me that i grind my teeth, and the bone loss is so advance that nothin can be done to save them. I am in full panic mood and i dont know what to do. I dont want my teeth gone. On Friday gone while brushing I realize the my upper front is a little"shaky". I almost pass out and had to lay down for a long time to recover. Today is monday and i have not eaten properly for fear of my tooth dropping off in my food, i cant sleep because i keeping dreaming of all my teeth falling out. All i can do is cry, just typing this and i'm a mess all over again. What am i going to do, I dont have a family as yet, how am i gonna find a husband with no teeth Please help. What can i do. PLEASE PLEASE
(Sorry for the long post.... I just needed to say it out and i'm ashamed to speak to my friends)
I AM 28yrs old and have become so desperate for help that I turned to the internet and thankfully I found you guys. While reading some of the advices you'll gave, even if it was not for me, made me feel so much better that I decided to join and seek assurance and advice also.
My Story:
The first time i visited the Dentist I was comprehensive at best and after i came out there I was downright scared and decided that this is not for me. When i sat in the Dentist chair i remember she explaining to me that my teeth are so clean and my gums are very healthy but my teeth should not be so close together that floss cannot pass through(I had no space between my teeth, No cavaties, no pain). I told her that i just wanted a check up to see if anything was ok on the inside. Big mistake. After she finished with me, There was so much blood and I could not eat solid food for a couple day. I was told later that this should not be so. I then developed this fear if Dentist that I never went back until a year and a half ago. which brings me to where i am today. My gum began hurting and i was encourgaed by a friend to visit his dentist who he said was lovely. I was scared and it took me at least a week of trying everything I could find over the counter. when i finally went i was very suprise. she was great and noticed my fears immediately. I told her what happen and she began my working on me. She was and still is great. But then after her first assessment, she informed me that because of the lenght of time between checks that i had major problems in my gums (still no cavities). She told me that my root was very brittle and is breaking off, but with constance cleaning she will be able to slow down the breaking. Fast track to now.... I was just informed that i needs to see a Speciality brcause the Dentist can no longer help. I am lossing bone too fast. (After almost 2 years now they realize that). I am so scared now that i can't stop crying and freaking out. I went to another dentist(I lost most of my fear for them) for another opinion and the news was worst. He informed me that i grind my teeth, and the bone loss is so advance that nothin can be done to save them. I am in full panic mood and i dont know what to do. I dont want my teeth gone. On Friday gone while brushing I realize the my upper front is a little"shaky". I almost pass out and had to lay down for a long time to recover. Today is monday and i have not eaten properly for fear of my tooth dropping off in my food, i cant sleep because i keeping dreaming of all my teeth falling out. All i can do is cry, just typing this and i'm a mess all over again. What am i going to do, I dont have a family as yet, how am i gonna find a husband with no teeth Please help. What can i do. PLEASE PLEASE
(Sorry for the long post.... I just needed to say it out and i'm ashamed to speak to my friends)