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ChrissyR
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I would be so grateful for any advice as I feel that I’m literally going out of my mind. I’m a 64 year old lady with an absolute terror of the dentist. A few things have happened in the past that have made me like this.
i can clearly remember as a child going to the dentist and having the big black rubber mask held on my face so that the gas would send me off to sleep. When I say ‘held on’ I literally mean forcibly pushed on my face. The next time I went my mum literally dragged me there kicking and screaming. I don’t remember how many times this happened.
As soon as I was old enough to make my own decisions I simply stopped going then, as my teeth deteriorated, I stopped brushing them properly because sometimes it was sore and I was worried about dislodging a filling or something.
Many years later, I had terrible toothache and somehow managed to get myself to the dentist (my husband was in the forces and we were abroad so the dentist was based in a British Military Hospital). I had suffered with rheumatic fever as a child and, although I’ve been told that this has now changed, back then they used to give you some sort of injection before dental treatment if you had suffered with that. Anyway, on this occasion, they took me into the room and gave me the injection then told me to wait in the waiting room. I started to feel very strange and people were looking at me. The next thing I remember is coming to in the dentist chair with a lot of concerned faces looking at me. One of them turned out to be an emergency doctor they had called in from somewhere else in the hospital. They were talking about possible heart problems, it was terrifying. To cut a long story short, it turned out that I had had a bad reaction to the injection. I was back to square one and too scared to go back.
Again, a few years later, I somehow managed to pluck up the courage to make an appointment with a dentist. Basically he took one look in my mouth, said it was disgusting and that I didn’t deserve help. I left there and then and have never seen a dentist since. That was 13 years ago and, obviously, my teeth are now even worse. I have pain sometimes, my gums and teeth are in a terrible state, but I just muddle through with painkillers.
i have also suffered with depression and anxiety for many years and the whole dentist thing just makes everything worse. I am at my lowest point now, I’m crying all the time, I don’t know where to turn and I’m absolutely terrified. Nothing seems real any more. I know that I have let things get this bad but I just don’t know where to turn.
I’m sorry this is so long but I wanted to try and include everything. Please help me.
ChrissyR
i can clearly remember as a child going to the dentist and having the big black rubber mask held on my face so that the gas would send me off to sleep. When I say ‘held on’ I literally mean forcibly pushed on my face. The next time I went my mum literally dragged me there kicking and screaming. I don’t remember how many times this happened.
As soon as I was old enough to make my own decisions I simply stopped going then, as my teeth deteriorated, I stopped brushing them properly because sometimes it was sore and I was worried about dislodging a filling or something.
Many years later, I had terrible toothache and somehow managed to get myself to the dentist (my husband was in the forces and we were abroad so the dentist was based in a British Military Hospital). I had suffered with rheumatic fever as a child and, although I’ve been told that this has now changed, back then they used to give you some sort of injection before dental treatment if you had suffered with that. Anyway, on this occasion, they took me into the room and gave me the injection then told me to wait in the waiting room. I started to feel very strange and people were looking at me. The next thing I remember is coming to in the dentist chair with a lot of concerned faces looking at me. One of them turned out to be an emergency doctor they had called in from somewhere else in the hospital. They were talking about possible heart problems, it was terrifying. To cut a long story short, it turned out that I had had a bad reaction to the injection. I was back to square one and too scared to go back.
Again, a few years later, I somehow managed to pluck up the courage to make an appointment with a dentist. Basically he took one look in my mouth, said it was disgusting and that I didn’t deserve help. I left there and then and have never seen a dentist since. That was 13 years ago and, obviously, my teeth are now even worse. I have pain sometimes, my gums and teeth are in a terrible state, but I just muddle through with painkillers.
i have also suffered with depression and anxiety for many years and the whole dentist thing just makes everything worse. I am at my lowest point now, I’m crying all the time, I don’t know where to turn and I’m absolutely terrified. Nothing seems real any more. I know that I have let things get this bad but I just don’t know where to turn.
I’m sorry this is so long but I wanted to try and include everything. Please help me.
ChrissyR