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Perfectly Flawed
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Hi, I just found this site acouple of days ago. I started by reading up on some of the information, which enlightened me a lot about teeth and problems which can effect them, and made me feel relieved too, to know that there are other people who're having problems similar to mine. I've got to admit, I'm feeling pretty anxious just being here, I haven't REALLY confronted the problem of my teeth, well since I noticed the problem maybe 7 years ago. I guess I should tell you my situation.
My name is Matthew, I'm 19 years old and I live in England. My life right now, is non-existant. Things were going pretty well until I got to secondary school, I just found the whole change from primary to secondary overwhelming, and started to skip school. It started just a day a week, then it would be two, then I started to miss whole weeks, and within the first two months of the second year I just stopped going all together. Anyway as you can imagine my parents, (dad especially) were very worried and took me to psycologists to try and figure out what was wrong. After a few visits I got diagnosed with aspergers syndrome. Anyways it was about this time when I noticed large white gritty deposits on some of my teeth, the bottom front teeth are the worst. At the time I didn't pay it much mind, I had bigger things to worry about. But at 13 I was sitting in the kitchen eating lunch with my mum, when suddenly she turned to me, her face full of shock, she had noticed my teeth and went crazy. Asking me what was wrong, telling me to brush my teeth to see if it went off, it didn't. She left for work still worried, and when she came back I pretty much told her never talk about this again or tell anyone. I am quite domineering, and although I know she wanted to help I just couldn't deal with it, although looking back I so wish she would have told dad and dragged me to the dentist to deal with it then and there. The years past by, with me completely ignoring all my problems, I became more and more of a recluse.
So here I am now, 19 years old, haven't left my house by myself since I was 12, complete recluse, mental problems, no qualifications, and my teeth are so bad I' embarrased to smile, eat or even speak infront of my own family. Tartar covering most of my bottom teeth, literally connecting the teeth together, some begining to decay, ontop of that they're crooked as hell, a big goofy gap on my front teeth to boot, shit, I can't even bite into a sandwich they feel so weak and fragile, like if I make one wrong move they'll just pop out. I just feel so helpless right now, day by day I'm finding it harder to justify carrying on living. I find it terrifying going across the street to get a hair cut, how am I ever going to find the guts to go to the dentist. My biggest worry is my family finding out, I'm not even sure which of my family knows about it, mum for sure, dad, well it's likely mum told him, though he probable doesn't know how bad they are. My sisters probable know, but again not have bad. I just can't deal with their reaction. I think this is the first time, even on the internet I've ever talked about it. God, I'm sweating bullets just writing this. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, I've dug myself a massive hole and I really don't believe I can get out. I spend most of my days watching tv, going on the internet or playing video games, anything to escape reality.
Well anyway I'd like to see some reaction to this post, so comment if you have anything to say, advice, anything.
My name is Matthew, I'm 19 years old and I live in England. My life right now, is non-existant. Things were going pretty well until I got to secondary school, I just found the whole change from primary to secondary overwhelming, and started to skip school. It started just a day a week, then it would be two, then I started to miss whole weeks, and within the first two months of the second year I just stopped going all together. Anyway as you can imagine my parents, (dad especially) were very worried and took me to psycologists to try and figure out what was wrong. After a few visits I got diagnosed with aspergers syndrome. Anyways it was about this time when I noticed large white gritty deposits on some of my teeth, the bottom front teeth are the worst. At the time I didn't pay it much mind, I had bigger things to worry about. But at 13 I was sitting in the kitchen eating lunch with my mum, when suddenly she turned to me, her face full of shock, she had noticed my teeth and went crazy. Asking me what was wrong, telling me to brush my teeth to see if it went off, it didn't. She left for work still worried, and when she came back I pretty much told her never talk about this again or tell anyone. I am quite domineering, and although I know she wanted to help I just couldn't deal with it, although looking back I so wish she would have told dad and dragged me to the dentist to deal with it then and there. The years past by, with me completely ignoring all my problems, I became more and more of a recluse.
So here I am now, 19 years old, haven't left my house by myself since I was 12, complete recluse, mental problems, no qualifications, and my teeth are so bad I' embarrased to smile, eat or even speak infront of my own family. Tartar covering most of my bottom teeth, literally connecting the teeth together, some begining to decay, ontop of that they're crooked as hell, a big goofy gap on my front teeth to boot, shit, I can't even bite into a sandwich they feel so weak and fragile, like if I make one wrong move they'll just pop out. I just feel so helpless right now, day by day I'm finding it harder to justify carrying on living. I find it terrifying going across the street to get a hair cut, how am I ever going to find the guts to go to the dentist. My biggest worry is my family finding out, I'm not even sure which of my family knows about it, mum for sure, dad, well it's likely mum told him, though he probable doesn't know how bad they are. My sisters probable know, but again not have bad. I just can't deal with their reaction. I think this is the first time, even on the internet I've ever talked about it. God, I'm sweating bullets just writing this. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, I've dug myself a massive hole and I really don't believe I can get out. I spend most of my days watching tv, going on the internet or playing video games, anything to escape reality.
Well anyway I'd like to see some reaction to this post, so comment if you have anything to say, advice, anything.