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Mariner109
Former Member
Hi there, I just found this forum when looking for a dentist nearby. Just looking for one gets me nervous, to the point I feel sick. Dentists are about the only thing I can say I actually fear. The sounds, the feeling, laying back with a masked person hovering over you, sticking their fingers and other things in your mouth.... I'm a 29 yo male, served in the military, work in an intense and dangerous environment, yet I'm scared sh*tless by dentists (which most of my family and friends find intensely amusing).
I think it started at my first appointment when I was 6 or so. My mom took me in for a first check-up and cleaning, and the dentist discovered a cavity. The next thing I know he's coming at me with this huge silver needle, so I clamped my mouth shut. He tried prying it open (literally, he stuck some metal thing in my mouth and tried to pry it open) and cussing at me, so I bit him, kicked him and ran out of the office. He came out and yelled at my mom, and eventually his assistant recommended us to children's dentist, who I ended up going to until I was 18. I can't even get my teeth cleaned without nitrous oxide to calm me down. After that I saw the dentists in the Army when required, but that was only for routine cleaning. They wouldn't allow nitrous for such a minor procedure, but eventually I was able to convince them to let me listen to a CD player, which helped some. I admit that's it's probably a psychological adversion, but I just can't over come it.
Anyway, I haven't been to one since I got out in April '05. Now I need to go again because I know I have two or more teeth with cavities, and they're starting to hurt. I just can't bring myself to actually make an appointment. First I'm in school on the GI Bill and have no income, but I've been trying to save what I can. Second, like I said before, just looking freaks me out. my heart starts pounding, I feel sick and almost feel like crying (which really makes me feel pathetic). I'm not from the area I live in now and don't know any of the dentists, and I don't like talking to a dentist, or thier assistants, about my fears. Can anyone offer some advice for making that first appointment?
I think it started at my first appointment when I was 6 or so. My mom took me in for a first check-up and cleaning, and the dentist discovered a cavity. The next thing I know he's coming at me with this huge silver needle, so I clamped my mouth shut. He tried prying it open (literally, he stuck some metal thing in my mouth and tried to pry it open) and cussing at me, so I bit him, kicked him and ran out of the office. He came out and yelled at my mom, and eventually his assistant recommended us to children's dentist, who I ended up going to until I was 18. I can't even get my teeth cleaned without nitrous oxide to calm me down. After that I saw the dentists in the Army when required, but that was only for routine cleaning. They wouldn't allow nitrous for such a minor procedure, but eventually I was able to convince them to let me listen to a CD player, which helped some. I admit that's it's probably a psychological adversion, but I just can't over come it.
Anyway, I haven't been to one since I got out in April '05. Now I need to go again because I know I have two or more teeth with cavities, and they're starting to hurt. I just can't bring myself to actually make an appointment. First I'm in school on the GI Bill and have no income, but I've been trying to save what I can. Second, like I said before, just looking freaks me out. my heart starts pounding, I feel sick and almost feel like crying (which really makes me feel pathetic). I'm not from the area I live in now and don't know any of the dentists, and I don't like talking to a dentist, or thier assistants, about my fears. Can anyone offer some advice for making that first appointment?