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Anxious76
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Hi, lovely to hear from you! I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough day today, I thought I'd reply as quickly as possible to be able to offer support. ALL I had was rough days for a few months after my work started in September, so please believe me-I know exactly how paralyzing and depressing it is. It's just hellish. I went into the dental office yesterday evening to pay a payment on my plan and I spoke to one of the many lovely receptionists there, she's particularly nice I asked her, how do you think I will do during sedation, it's coming up pretty soon! And she was so reassuring and said Oh, it'll be great, you will love it etc etc and said she'd definitely have it if and when she needs it. So I did feel reassured. I've amazed myself by the calm and peace I'm feeling over the whole thing, again-I put it down to my faith which I've really clung to since this all started. You will be just fine. Deep down you know that, you're just overly anxious right now and thinking about after the IV probably also?
Like I've said before, this will soon be in your rear view window and you will be feeling so proud of yourself and relieved to have had it all done. It's just the thought of going through it that has you freaked out, that's totally understandable!
You've got this! It's going to be all over with soon and you won't need to worry about it any more?
I don't know if I'm going to get really anxious before the appointment or not, I'm scared of having a panic attack. But we are both going to go forward and it's going to be bearable. Agreed?!
And Yes, he definately wants to move to Texas. They call where we live in Alberta 'Texas North because of our oil and gas industry. I always was fascinated and still am about New England. We lived in California for a few years but I always wanted to see New England. Yes, we have had record snowfall this past week if over 50cm and temps of -40, it can be a bit depressing.
Remember, I and others are thinking of you and sending you thoughts of peace and strength to help you through, sleep Well!
Hello again. How lovely to sign in before bed and see you replied to my message. You definitely have made me feel better! After my rough first half of the day I managed to feel a little better, but I had a good cry first I’m not going to lie. I consider it a release valve. It’s so nice to have someone to talk to who understands what my particular situation is first hand. I often describe it as a Hell of sorts even though I do understand there are people facing much more severe and life threatening circumstances. We all have our demons we wrestle with don’t we? My goal is to help as many people like me as I can and I already vowed if I come into a lot of money I am going to open a dental clinic for those with both dental anxiety and limited funds. No one should ever have to suffer with poor teeth.
While it’s always lousy to make a payment for the astronomical amount of work we’re having done, it’s actually quite good you were able to stop in between appointments for a non dental visit. The more familiar we can become with the place and the more pleasant and non threatening our visits, the better! It was nice to be offered some extra reassurance about the IV. Truth is the stuff is good. Very good. We are both very lucky we have it available to us in fact. And I know I’m going to take a Valium a hour before the appointment and have no cares by the time I get there just like before...rationally I know this. Anxiety is like a monster that demands feeding so it tricks the brain into thinking up all kinds of wild imaginations. I know the relief we will both feel will be tremendous. I’ll be in your corner on that day, I mentally have it marked on my calendar. You can feel free to private message me any time you would like.
New Hampshire is the must see of New England. But I do recommend the fall or summer months, for obvious reasons. Ideally I would love summers there and winters here but we’re certainly not in that position financially especially after the dental bill! ?
Thank you for being so kind and understanding. I really appreciate it!