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- Mar 20, 2018
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I’m surprised I’m even taking the first step in writing this post. Hopefully it’ll feel better to vent this out and maybe get some opinions. I’m 30 years old, regular soda drinker, hereditary bad teeth. Parents and grandparents all have had major problems. I feel like I’ve been cursed from start, although my procrastination has certainly made all of this worse. I haven’t been to a dentist in 25 years. It was such a miserable experience when I did go, and my parents had no money for braces or anything else that would help me feel better about myself so that’s pretty much that. I was told I had the million dollar mouth. I don’t think that’s a complement but I’d like to get it sorted out now. I’m so jealous of everyone around me and I’m ashamed to be in the bottom 20% of teeth appearance.
But my issues are so numerous and it feels like there’s too much to even know where to begin.
First, I have a massive overbite that I’m okay with, doesn’t bother me, but I worry that they are gonna want to break my jaw or do something crazy.
Next, I have very crowded teeth and my bottom row looks all jacked up, different heights and angles of teeth.
What’s worse, I still have 8 baby teeth, all molars. They are all in OK shape except one that recently cracked. I don’t know what they will do about this. I have no room for adult teeth if it was even an option, but I know these will not last much longer and I feel like a freak for even having them.
I have several cavities that are on the fronts of teeth on the gum line and look horrible. The gums are swollen around them and it’s difficult to brush.
I have one badly chipped front tooth that keeps wearing away. It’s a normal shape but about half the size at this point. It happened in an accident when one of my bottom teeth smacked it. Did I mention my overbite?
Lastly my wisdom teeth are all jacked up too. One of them got badly infected about 10 years ago. I got antibiotics and it eventually stopped hurting, broke apart, and now I have a hole that food gets stuck in. I have no idea what they can even do about this. Seal the hole?
I feel like I’ve waited too long on all of this stuff, and that there may not be anything they can do besides pull everything. I absolutely refuse to have dentures, it‘s just a mental line I cannot cross even though I’d be happier and look better. Still I really want them to fix what I have even if I have to spend a fortune to do so. I have found a dentist online that seems to be suited to my case, I’ve filled out the forms but haven’t gotten the guts to call for an appt. I was up half the night last night worrying, I promised myself I’d call today and I didn’t. So easy to push it off another day, but I’m so ashamed. I know my fear is ridiculous. I even know that I’ll probably be okay once I get there. It’s bringing myself to get there that’s so hard. Looking at these forums there’s others like me at least!
But my issues are so numerous and it feels like there’s too much to even know where to begin.
First, I have a massive overbite that I’m okay with, doesn’t bother me, but I worry that they are gonna want to break my jaw or do something crazy.
Next, I have very crowded teeth and my bottom row looks all jacked up, different heights and angles of teeth.
What’s worse, I still have 8 baby teeth, all molars. They are all in OK shape except one that recently cracked. I don’t know what they will do about this. I have no room for adult teeth if it was even an option, but I know these will not last much longer and I feel like a freak for even having them.
I have several cavities that are on the fronts of teeth on the gum line and look horrible. The gums are swollen around them and it’s difficult to brush.
I have one badly chipped front tooth that keeps wearing away. It’s a normal shape but about half the size at this point. It happened in an accident when one of my bottom teeth smacked it. Did I mention my overbite?
Lastly my wisdom teeth are all jacked up too. One of them got badly infected about 10 years ago. I got antibiotics and it eventually stopped hurting, broke apart, and now I have a hole that food gets stuck in. I have no idea what they can even do about this. Seal the hole?
I feel like I’ve waited too long on all of this stuff, and that there may not be anything they can do besides pull everything. I absolutely refuse to have dentures, it‘s just a mental line I cannot cross even though I’d be happier and look better. Still I really want them to fix what I have even if I have to spend a fortune to do so. I have found a dentist online that seems to be suited to my case, I’ve filled out the forms but haven’t gotten the guts to call for an appt. I was up half the night last night worrying, I promised myself I’d call today and I didn’t. So easy to push it off another day, but I’m so ashamed. I know my fear is ridiculous. I even know that I’ll probably be okay once I get there. It’s bringing myself to get there that’s so hard. Looking at these forums there’s others like me at least!