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If it is the upper one, they will be able to just numb that tooth. I had an upper tooth pulled about 10 days ago and I couldn't even really tell it was numb just by not doing anything. Couldn't feel anything when he was pulling it so I know it was numb, but nothing like having the bottom numb when half your bottom jaw goes numb.