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miss_scared
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I am absolutely terrified! I have been on the NHS waiting list since February and was told it would be 9 months till I get an appointment. I have just had the letter through today to say I have been offered a place and unfortunately at a place I was hoping I'd never get offered. It's reputation isn't great and my sister goes to this dentist as no other option and she said they are horrendous and like being butchered with the needle!
I have a huge huge needle phobia and I cannot feel pain from an injection in my gum, I just can't but apparantly they don't offer numbing gel or sedation, both of which I would need. Also they like you in and out very quick as basically only NHS dentist taking people on so very very busy. I need someone understanding, willing to take their time, realise I can't have treatment as quickly as someone with no phobia but I can't afford to go private and get that. This place is my only option.
Plus I am so so embarrassed. My 2 front top teeth have virtually decayed away so I have filled the top myself because they were so loose and would have fallen out a year ago but again I had no dentist and no one taking on. How do I tell my dentist that and not be ashamed or picked on about it? Plus I know if he was to take the filling out my teeth would fall out there and then and I couldn't deal with that.
I suffer from anxiety, social anxiety and panic attacks so the hell am I ever going to get to the dentist? I won't even let him poke my teeth as they do at first appointment as I hate that feeling and have 4 loose teeth that I know if he scratched it they would fall out.
I just don't know what to do, I just cannot make that appointment even with how low and fed up of my teeth I feel. I've already been told I need extensive orthdontic work as well and will need referral to the hospital
I have a huge huge needle phobia and I cannot feel pain from an injection in my gum, I just can't but apparantly they don't offer numbing gel or sedation, both of which I would need. Also they like you in and out very quick as basically only NHS dentist taking people on so very very busy. I need someone understanding, willing to take their time, realise I can't have treatment as quickly as someone with no phobia but I can't afford to go private and get that. This place is my only option.
Plus I am so so embarrassed. My 2 front top teeth have virtually decayed away so I have filled the top myself because they were so loose and would have fallen out a year ago but again I had no dentist and no one taking on. How do I tell my dentist that and not be ashamed or picked on about it? Plus I know if he was to take the filling out my teeth would fall out there and then and I couldn't deal with that.
I suffer from anxiety, social anxiety and panic attacks so the hell am I ever going to get to the dentist? I won't even let him poke my teeth as they do at first appointment as I hate that feeling and have 4 loose teeth that I know if he scratched it they would fall out.
I just don't know what to do, I just cannot make that appointment even with how low and fed up of my teeth I feel. I've already been told I need extensive orthdontic work as well and will need referral to the hospital