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Jo1975
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Apologies if this rambles a bit, it's the first time I've ever posted on anything like this.
I have had a fear of the dentist since a traumatic experience as a child (I'm now in my mid-40s). Over the years it has got to the point where I can't even look at my own teeth and rarely smile in photos or in public. I reached the point just before Christmas of being in so much pain with a back tooth that I had to go to the dentist and was told that I have severe periodontis to the point where the gums have receeded and I have bone loss. The dentist has recommended a number of extractions and partial dentures.
I have a hygienist appointment in 2 weeks followed by the first extractions 3 days later - although the dentist did say that when they remove the plaque build up, the teeth may come away with it. It's the lower front teeth first but the back teeth on one side feel really loose and whilst it's not painful, I'm in constant discomfort. The dentist suggested that it will take a 6-12 months to get it fully sorted but then I'll be left with very few of my own teeth left and I'm worried about whether I'll be able to deal with taking the dentures in and out properly as I can't imagine being able to actually look at my own teeth (which I know sounds ridiculous).
The dentist I went to was lovely and didn't judge me as I had feared but I am terrified of the upcoming hygienist appointment - I keep having dreams of the teeth all falling out or wobbling around and my teeth and the state I've allowed them to get into are taking over my every thought - all day, every day.
I know I've done this to myself and I'm not looking for sympathy. I also know that it's not the end of the world - people go through much worse every day and it's not life threatening so I should just get a grip but I wondered whether other people had been through similar experiences who can tell me that there is light at the end of the tunnel and I won't always have my every though dominated by my teeth.
I have had a fear of the dentist since a traumatic experience as a child (I'm now in my mid-40s). Over the years it has got to the point where I can't even look at my own teeth and rarely smile in photos or in public. I reached the point just before Christmas of being in so much pain with a back tooth that I had to go to the dentist and was told that I have severe periodontis to the point where the gums have receeded and I have bone loss. The dentist has recommended a number of extractions and partial dentures.
I have a hygienist appointment in 2 weeks followed by the first extractions 3 days later - although the dentist did say that when they remove the plaque build up, the teeth may come away with it. It's the lower front teeth first but the back teeth on one side feel really loose and whilst it's not painful, I'm in constant discomfort. The dentist suggested that it will take a 6-12 months to get it fully sorted but then I'll be left with very few of my own teeth left and I'm worried about whether I'll be able to deal with taking the dentures in and out properly as I can't imagine being able to actually look at my own teeth (which I know sounds ridiculous).
The dentist I went to was lovely and didn't judge me as I had feared but I am terrified of the upcoming hygienist appointment - I keep having dreams of the teeth all falling out or wobbling around and my teeth and the state I've allowed them to get into are taking over my every thought - all day, every day.
I know I've done this to myself and I'm not looking for sympathy. I also know that it's not the end of the world - people go through much worse every day and it's not life threatening so I should just get a grip but I wondered whether other people had been through similar experiences who can tell me that there is light at the end of the tunnel and I won't always have my every though dominated by my teeth.