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Hollyharvey
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Hi everyone.
Brief background I am 49. As a child had a terrible dentist. My parents even admit that they think the one parenting mistake they made was not finding me a different dentist. The result is a real fear of dentists.
From leaving home until when I was 29 I only went to the dentist only if I had toothache. Then at 29 I went and had treatment, then again in 1992 and had veneers on the front teeth.
Since then I had pain in 1998, went to a dentist who whas horrid. He just kept asking why I had let my teeth get so bad, and asked if I was prepared to take treatment seriously. I ran out of there in tears.
Since January 2005 I have had terrible pain. Five teeth are not teeth, just little black bits of decay left sticking out. On each side I have one upper and one lower molar all of which hurt, and now two of the front ones have decay (although the veneer hides this), and one of the front ones is causing the roof of my mouth to swell up.
In May 2005 I broke down in tears when a GP did a home visit because of my depression and agoraphobia and told her all about it. She tried to get a dentist to visit because I have depression and agoraphobia but she could not.
Since 2005 I have been buying antibiotics abroad and getting them shipped in, this seems to stop a lot of the pain as it prevents an abscess forming, as is is keeping any infection at bay (I know about the damage I am doing to myself over this).
Today I phoned the local NHS helpline and got the number of a NHS dentist in the area, and they gave me an appointment for next Monday (24th November), and I am so scared!!. I am so embarrassed about the state of my teeth, and so scared about any treatment. They do not know I am nervous - or more to the point that it is far more than that.
I have tranquillisers I can take (lorazepam) as I have them for my depression, but even my friends don't know about this fear and I don't feel able to talk to any of them about it, and I can't speak to my doctor now, as I have moved and it is a new one, I don't feel I can admit how bad my teeth are to.
I just don't know what to do, I am in total despair, and have even had fleeting thoughts that I would rather die than deal with this.
The NHS lady also told me they may refuse to treat me when they discover how much work I need.
Anyone that has read this far, thank you for taking the time.
Holly
Brief background I am 49. As a child had a terrible dentist. My parents even admit that they think the one parenting mistake they made was not finding me a different dentist. The result is a real fear of dentists.
From leaving home until when I was 29 I only went to the dentist only if I had toothache. Then at 29 I went and had treatment, then again in 1992 and had veneers on the front teeth.
Since then I had pain in 1998, went to a dentist who whas horrid. He just kept asking why I had let my teeth get so bad, and asked if I was prepared to take treatment seriously. I ran out of there in tears.
Since January 2005 I have had terrible pain. Five teeth are not teeth, just little black bits of decay left sticking out. On each side I have one upper and one lower molar all of which hurt, and now two of the front ones have decay (although the veneer hides this), and one of the front ones is causing the roof of my mouth to swell up.
In May 2005 I broke down in tears when a GP did a home visit because of my depression and agoraphobia and told her all about it. She tried to get a dentist to visit because I have depression and agoraphobia but she could not.
Since 2005 I have been buying antibiotics abroad and getting them shipped in, this seems to stop a lot of the pain as it prevents an abscess forming, as is is keeping any infection at bay (I know about the damage I am doing to myself over this).
Today I phoned the local NHS helpline and got the number of a NHS dentist in the area, and they gave me an appointment for next Monday (24th November), and I am so scared!!. I am so embarrassed about the state of my teeth, and so scared about any treatment. They do not know I am nervous - or more to the point that it is far more than that.
I have tranquillisers I can take (lorazepam) as I have them for my depression, but even my friends don't know about this fear and I don't feel able to talk to any of them about it, and I can't speak to my doctor now, as I have moved and it is a new one, I don't feel I can admit how bad my teeth are to.
I just don't know what to do, I am in total despair, and have even had fleeting thoughts that I would rather die than deal with this.
The NHS lady also told me they may refuse to treat me when they discover how much work I need.
Anyone that has read this far, thank you for taking the time.
Holly