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uberkatja
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Hi everyone. I just need to vent, and I love to know if any of you have similar issues you have dealt with.
First, the current state of my teeth: I haven't been to the dentist in 3 years. At my last appointment, they told me I had 5 cavities, but weren't going to fill them because I was doing invisalign at the time and they didn't want it to ruin the molds I already had. After the orthodontic treatment ended, I never ended up going back to the dentist and the fear over these cavities and embarrassment has continued to grow. About a year ago, 2 of my back molars cracked fairly significantly (down to the gum), so I'm just missing big chunks of those teeth. I've never had pain with them, but I know it's something that needs to be dealt with eventually, and I prefer to do it on my own time rather than having my life derailed by sudden pain. I also still have my wisdom teeth, and am super scared that if/when I go to the dentist they're going to tell me I need to get them removed.
Now, all of this would be enough to deal with, but I also have a lot of chronic health issues that complicate dental procedures and just compound my anxiety. I have ehlers danlos syndrome (EDS), which among other things makes local anesthetic essentially useless. I wasn't diagnosed until recently, but I remember going to dentists in the past and needing multiple shots and still feeling some pain, and dentists always not believing me. So I'm really scared that whatever procedure I have will be painful and the dentist will dismiss my pain.
I also have something called postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome (POTS), which affects my autonomic nervous system (heart rate, breathing, blood pressure, etc.). Any shots with epi are really bad because I already have a rapid heart rate and it could send me into a bad flare that could last for days after. The stress of going to the dentist in general could also trigger a flare, and any procedure that will need to be done on the cracked teeth (root canal, extraction, etc.) would definitely trigger a flare. I am also scared the stress will trigger a migraine. It's really hard to walk into something you know is going to make you feel really sick.
tl;dr: I'm terrified that the procedures I will need will make my other health problems way worse and I'm just going to spend like a month completely out of commission, but I also know I need to go to the dentist while I have minimal obligations and before my teeth get any worse. I feel like I'm stuck in a catch 22 and I don't know what to do. I need to go to the dentist, I just can't.
First, the current state of my teeth: I haven't been to the dentist in 3 years. At my last appointment, they told me I had 5 cavities, but weren't going to fill them because I was doing invisalign at the time and they didn't want it to ruin the molds I already had. After the orthodontic treatment ended, I never ended up going back to the dentist and the fear over these cavities and embarrassment has continued to grow. About a year ago, 2 of my back molars cracked fairly significantly (down to the gum), so I'm just missing big chunks of those teeth. I've never had pain with them, but I know it's something that needs to be dealt with eventually, and I prefer to do it on my own time rather than having my life derailed by sudden pain. I also still have my wisdom teeth, and am super scared that if/when I go to the dentist they're going to tell me I need to get them removed.
Now, all of this would be enough to deal with, but I also have a lot of chronic health issues that complicate dental procedures and just compound my anxiety. I have ehlers danlos syndrome (EDS), which among other things makes local anesthetic essentially useless. I wasn't diagnosed until recently, but I remember going to dentists in the past and needing multiple shots and still feeling some pain, and dentists always not believing me. So I'm really scared that whatever procedure I have will be painful and the dentist will dismiss my pain.
I also have something called postural orthostatic tachycardia syndrome (POTS), which affects my autonomic nervous system (heart rate, breathing, blood pressure, etc.). Any shots with epi are really bad because I already have a rapid heart rate and it could send me into a bad flare that could last for days after. The stress of going to the dentist in general could also trigger a flare, and any procedure that will need to be done on the cracked teeth (root canal, extraction, etc.) would definitely trigger a flare. I am also scared the stress will trigger a migraine. It's really hard to walk into something you know is going to make you feel really sick.
tl;dr: I'm terrified that the procedures I will need will make my other health problems way worse and I'm just going to spend like a month completely out of commission, but I also know I need to go to the dentist while I have minimal obligations and before my teeth get any worse. I feel like I'm stuck in a catch 22 and I don't know what to do. I need to go to the dentist, I just can't.
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