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tmesis
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My dental story is a long one, but even as I am coming to grips with my dental phobia I can't seem to shake the idea that for some people, orthodontic treatment can do far more harm than good. I'd always had overcrowding in my mouth, and at the tender age of 8 I had several teeth extracted under general anaesthetic at the dentist's. This was fine: the real problems started when I was 11.
I had an accident and split my front right tooth in half, causing enough damage to the root that it needed to be extracted. The extraction was traumatic. I was then referred to an orthodontist who decided to try and straighten all my teeth and shift the right incisor to the gap at the front. I had fixed braces for three or so years, enduring a hell of a lot of pain as the teeth shifted. My horrible smile also hugely affected my confidence and I was badly bullied. I also had another operation to remove 3 or 4 adult molars beneath the gums that were moving in wrongly.
When I was about 14 my bottom braces were removed and I was given a retainer which I wore religiously; after about a year it was taken away as my bottom teeth were judged okay. I wore the upper retainer for much longer: it was adjusted continually with a false tooth to fit the new gap. My gums behind my front teeth swelled up so I had an operation to shave them down when I was about 17. This is when I stopped going to the dentist.
The trauma of 6 years of extensive treatment and no noticeable result other than immense amounts of pain, humiliation, discomfort and a considerably worse smile left me unwilling to complete my treatment. I cleaned my teeth obsessively, thinking that I could put off further pain by just taking care of what I had.
My teeth were a mess: I don't have any photos as I never opened my mouth in line of a camera. As the years went by my phobia heightened and it was only when I'd written off my mouth completely that I went to the dentist.
In my absence from the dentist I got a tartar build up, severe staining and a cavity in my top right wisdom tooth -- all of which have been fixed in a couple of weeks of painless treatment. (Hurrah! Love my dentist. ) BUT, my teeth are now more crooked than ever before. At first I thought this was because of the wisdom teeth coming through, though I have read that this is unlikely to be the reason. Seems my teeth just *like* to be crooked, and nothing can be done long term.
I have worn my retainer on my top teeth 24/7 for 12 (twelve!) years, yet still the left incisor and right front tooth have twisted, and now there is a large gap between the left incisor and both teeth either side. My new dentist is quite honest with me: I will never, ever have a Hollywood smile, but we can at least try and keep my teeth healthy. I'm okay with this, but I wish I'd known it sooner. Never in those several years of painful treatment when I was younger did my orthodontist EVER explain what she was doing and why, or how it wouldn't actually make ANY difference long term. I'm assuming she didn't know: every patient is different, after all. But my mother and myself were given the strong impression that in at most 3 years it would be worth it.
Maybe for a lot of patients it is worth it, but it wasn't for me. If I could go back I'd just get them to bridge the gap there and then. I'm not anti-braces, necessarily, but I wish I'd been given some kind of explanation as to why 6 years of orthontic treatment made my smile look progressively worse.
I take full responsibility for my role in all this: I ran away from my problem and it grew. But I honestly believe that if I was given information about what was being done and why, or offered second opinions, or asked for my or my mother's consent and understanding, then I could have avoided a lifetime of pain and embarrassment.
I had an accident and split my front right tooth in half, causing enough damage to the root that it needed to be extracted. The extraction was traumatic. I was then referred to an orthodontist who decided to try and straighten all my teeth and shift the right incisor to the gap at the front. I had fixed braces for three or so years, enduring a hell of a lot of pain as the teeth shifted. My horrible smile also hugely affected my confidence and I was badly bullied. I also had another operation to remove 3 or 4 adult molars beneath the gums that were moving in wrongly.
When I was about 14 my bottom braces were removed and I was given a retainer which I wore religiously; after about a year it was taken away as my bottom teeth were judged okay. I wore the upper retainer for much longer: it was adjusted continually with a false tooth to fit the new gap. My gums behind my front teeth swelled up so I had an operation to shave them down when I was about 17. This is when I stopped going to the dentist.
The trauma of 6 years of extensive treatment and no noticeable result other than immense amounts of pain, humiliation, discomfort and a considerably worse smile left me unwilling to complete my treatment. I cleaned my teeth obsessively, thinking that I could put off further pain by just taking care of what I had.
My teeth were a mess: I don't have any photos as I never opened my mouth in line of a camera. As the years went by my phobia heightened and it was only when I'd written off my mouth completely that I went to the dentist.
In my absence from the dentist I got a tartar build up, severe staining and a cavity in my top right wisdom tooth -- all of which have been fixed in a couple of weeks of painless treatment. (Hurrah! Love my dentist. ) BUT, my teeth are now more crooked than ever before. At first I thought this was because of the wisdom teeth coming through, though I have read that this is unlikely to be the reason. Seems my teeth just *like* to be crooked, and nothing can be done long term.
I have worn my retainer on my top teeth 24/7 for 12 (twelve!) years, yet still the left incisor and right front tooth have twisted, and now there is a large gap between the left incisor and both teeth either side. My new dentist is quite honest with me: I will never, ever have a Hollywood smile, but we can at least try and keep my teeth healthy. I'm okay with this, but I wish I'd known it sooner. Never in those several years of painful treatment when I was younger did my orthodontist EVER explain what she was doing and why, or how it wouldn't actually make ANY difference long term. I'm assuming she didn't know: every patient is different, after all. But my mother and myself were given the strong impression that in at most 3 years it would be worth it.
Maybe for a lot of patients it is worth it, but it wasn't for me. If I could go back I'd just get them to bridge the gap there and then. I'm not anti-braces, necessarily, but I wish I'd been given some kind of explanation as to why 6 years of orthontic treatment made my smile look progressively worse.
I take full responsibility for my role in all this: I ran away from my problem and it grew. But I honestly believe that if I was given information about what was being done and why, or offered second opinions, or asked for my or my mother's consent and understanding, then I could have avoided a lifetime of pain and embarrassment.
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