E
Eccham
Junior member
- Joined
- Jul 14, 2020
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- Location
- Georgia
Hi yall
This is my first post and I am a big baby just looking for some encouragement. I am 21 and haven’t been to the dentist in 4 years- since before I left for college. I recently graduated and realized it has been too long since I’ve been.
Some backstory- my grandmother was my hygienist growing up, but the dentist she worked for was so mean. He was not a children’s dentist and was so rough with me. Not to mention, every time I have ever been to the dentist I have had at least 1 cavity. I take relatively good care of my teeth, but I have one every time. The staff there shamed me for being scared as a teenager and even for being afraid the last time I went at age 18. I cried and they said things like “come on now, you’re grown! It’s not that bad.” Just felt really dismissive and scary. I avoided going all throughout college because I was so afraid.
I took the first step though and booked a new patient appointment for tomorrow with a dentist in my new town that has great reviews. I am going in for a new patient exam since it has been so long. This includes exrays and an oral exam and all that jazz, but no cleaning. It may be determined that I need a deep cleaning- which is another scary thing. I know I have some cavities because I’ve been having a little pain in my back teeth and I know I need to get my wisdom teeth out. I am so stupid scared. I want to beat this fear, but I am petrified that I am going to go in and they’re going to tell me that I have to have a root canal or have teeth removed or something crazy like that. I know I am an adult and that I can be brave and do hard things, but I am so scared. I’ve cried all morning just thinking about my appointment! People also don’t understand that this is my big phobia. It seems like such a dumb one to have. Any one in a similar spot? I’ll take all the advice you got.
This is my first post and I am a big baby just looking for some encouragement. I am 21 and haven’t been to the dentist in 4 years- since before I left for college. I recently graduated and realized it has been too long since I’ve been.
Some backstory- my grandmother was my hygienist growing up, but the dentist she worked for was so mean. He was not a children’s dentist and was so rough with me. Not to mention, every time I have ever been to the dentist I have had at least 1 cavity. I take relatively good care of my teeth, but I have one every time. The staff there shamed me for being scared as a teenager and even for being afraid the last time I went at age 18. I cried and they said things like “come on now, you’re grown! It’s not that bad.” Just felt really dismissive and scary. I avoided going all throughout college because I was so afraid.
I took the first step though and booked a new patient appointment for tomorrow with a dentist in my new town that has great reviews. I am going in for a new patient exam since it has been so long. This includes exrays and an oral exam and all that jazz, but no cleaning. It may be determined that I need a deep cleaning- which is another scary thing. I know I have some cavities because I’ve been having a little pain in my back teeth and I know I need to get my wisdom teeth out. I am so stupid scared. I want to beat this fear, but I am petrified that I am going to go in and they’re going to tell me that I have to have a root canal or have teeth removed or something crazy like that. I know I am an adult and that I can be brave and do hard things, but I am so scared. I’ve cried all morning just thinking about my appointment! People also don’t understand that this is my big phobia. It seems like such a dumb one to have. Any one in a similar spot? I’ll take all the advice you got.