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well ok first off to anyone who suffers through this long first post thank you and you deserve a medal.
ive looked though this website along with a few others and i think this is the place to vent or help...or whatever i seem to be looking for.
iam 30 years old and i honestly cant remember the last time ive gone to the dentist. i have a overwhelming fear of them. to the point of being a grown man who will lay in the fetal position in tears in pain then go see one. the last one i seen as a kid really did a number on me and its never left me. of all my friends iam always the one with the worst teeth, same with any job ive had iam always the worst. i brush them every night an take care of them on my part. iam not some meth head with meth mouth. its just from a kid iam had a bunch of crowding and then my wizdom teeth came in to make the bunch worse. now i have a few that are broken in the back with nothing more then jagged nerves and what not. its something ive dealt with all my life its the only thing iam really ashamed of. i hate being around people because of it iam very closed off and hate talking to people or meeting new people because of it. sad part is my old job that i was at for 9 years i paid for dental insurance because "this was the year i take care of it" which never happend. my front teeth are crooked as all hell and as sad as it is to say id take suicide over going to get them fixed or looked at.its hard to watch tv with friends for fear of seeing a toothpaste or dental implant commerical and have me being the only one in the room with jacked up teeth. iam so embarrased to go to the dentist for one fear is "the pretty lady at the counter with a beautiful smile" is judging me and just laughing at me. iam an automotive techinian and i see some cars that are just poorly maintained and think wow what a pile of crap. so i think people in the dental field are judging me the same. i know alot of this may be true but its crippling me. last week i had to go to the ER for an absessed tooth an i would have never went if it were not for my wife dragging me there. and to talk to the people there was horrible cause i felt they were judging and laughin at me as well. and then to have to open my mouth and show the doctor ...blah. i was in tears. as i am writing this, yeah big man i know . ive been married 10 years and have two kids all with pretty teeth ( kids obviously took after the wife). and iam just worried iam going to loose my front teeth, like another thread on here i read and she will leave me or something. point is iam just in circles now about how to deal with this mental pain and mouth pain. my stepdad has been telling me to go see his dentist for a long time and i can just feel myself turing red anything its brought up and it just sucks. but the past two weeks are the worst pain ive been in in my life and i have to do something. its affecting my life,sleep,time with wife and kids cause iam a moody bastard,and now health.iam going to have to set up something soon cause i dont know what else to do. i was in a accident a few years ago and on percocet for a back injury and its out of hand the ammount of pills i take a day the past two weeks cause of my back teeth.i just dont know how to go about talking to the dentist without seeming like a baby. after all iam a grown man with tatoos some in some hardcore places that hurt like hell so how could i not go to the dentist. so again what am i to do? how do i talk to him without crying like a baby, or the lady at the desk i feel like everyone is just staring at my mouth. well sorry to ramble i just have no where else to turn cause i cant go on not eating (day 2) and in pain. thanks again for reading and dealing with my major case of whine ass.
ive looked though this website along with a few others and i think this is the place to vent or help...or whatever i seem to be looking for.
iam 30 years old and i honestly cant remember the last time ive gone to the dentist. i have a overwhelming fear of them. to the point of being a grown man who will lay in the fetal position in tears in pain then go see one. the last one i seen as a kid really did a number on me and its never left me. of all my friends iam always the one with the worst teeth, same with any job ive had iam always the worst. i brush them every night an take care of them on my part. iam not some meth head with meth mouth. its just from a kid iam had a bunch of crowding and then my wizdom teeth came in to make the bunch worse. now i have a few that are broken in the back with nothing more then jagged nerves and what not. its something ive dealt with all my life its the only thing iam really ashamed of. i hate being around people because of it iam very closed off and hate talking to people or meeting new people because of it. sad part is my old job that i was at for 9 years i paid for dental insurance because "this was the year i take care of it" which never happend. my front teeth are crooked as all hell and as sad as it is to say id take suicide over going to get them fixed or looked at.its hard to watch tv with friends for fear of seeing a toothpaste or dental implant commerical and have me being the only one in the room with jacked up teeth. iam so embarrased to go to the dentist for one fear is "the pretty lady at the counter with a beautiful smile" is judging me and just laughing at me. iam an automotive techinian and i see some cars that are just poorly maintained and think wow what a pile of crap. so i think people in the dental field are judging me the same. i know alot of this may be true but its crippling me. last week i had to go to the ER for an absessed tooth an i would have never went if it were not for my wife dragging me there. and to talk to the people there was horrible cause i felt they were judging and laughin at me as well. and then to have to open my mouth and show the doctor ...blah. i was in tears. as i am writing this, yeah big man i know . ive been married 10 years and have two kids all with pretty teeth ( kids obviously took after the wife). and iam just worried iam going to loose my front teeth, like another thread on here i read and she will leave me or something. point is iam just in circles now about how to deal with this mental pain and mouth pain. my stepdad has been telling me to go see his dentist for a long time and i can just feel myself turing red anything its brought up and it just sucks. but the past two weeks are the worst pain ive been in in my life and i have to do something. its affecting my life,sleep,time with wife and kids cause iam a moody bastard,and now health.iam going to have to set up something soon cause i dont know what else to do. i was in a accident a few years ago and on percocet for a back injury and its out of hand the ammount of pills i take a day the past two weeks cause of my back teeth.i just dont know how to go about talking to the dentist without seeming like a baby. after all iam a grown man with tatoos some in some hardcore places that hurt like hell so how could i not go to the dentist. so again what am i to do? how do i talk to him without crying like a baby, or the lady at the desk i feel like everyone is just staring at my mouth. well sorry to ramble i just have no where else to turn cause i cant go on not eating (day 2) and in pain. thanks again for reading and dealing with my major case of whine ass.