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AnxiousAnne
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Hi, I’m new here
I finally went to the dentist today after a few years of avoidance, and the experience was ok (not the best, not the worst) but I’ve got an appointment with the hygienist tomorrow morning.
I was hoping for some tips on how to cope, what to expect?
my background: as a child, I was forcibly held within a dentist office until I brushed my teeth to the dentist’s satisfaction. The dentist made me look at the blood and told me it was my fault because I didn’t know how to brush, and she was going to make me learn. Bloody and crying, I asked for my mom who was in the waiting room and was told I wasn’t allowed to get her/leave until the dentist said so. When my mom was finally brought in, the dentist became a different person, all cheery and sympathetic to my tears. The dentist told my mother that I had bled a small bit and gotten sick over it, and that’s why I was crying. I only told my parents of this years later and by that time, the dentist had been sacked for doing something similar to another child.
I finally went to the dentist today after a few years of avoidance, and the experience was ok (not the best, not the worst) but I’ve got an appointment with the hygienist tomorrow morning.
I was hoping for some tips on how to cope, what to expect?
my background: as a child, I was forcibly held within a dentist office until I brushed my teeth to the dentist’s satisfaction. The dentist made me look at the blood and told me it was my fault because I didn’t know how to brush, and she was going to make me learn. Bloody and crying, I asked for my mom who was in the waiting room and was told I wasn’t allowed to get her/leave until the dentist said so. When my mom was finally brought in, the dentist became a different person, all cheery and sympathetic to my tears. The dentist told my mother that I had bled a small bit and gotten sick over it, and that’s why I was crying. I only told my parents of this years later and by that time, the dentist had been sacked for doing something similar to another child.