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LadyDi4476
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- Joined
- Jul 28, 2009
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Hi, I'm new to this forum and I have to say reading these stories of fear and embarrassment do make me feel less alone. I've been spending the past year feeling like I'm completely alone in this nightmare and nobody understands what I'm going through.
I'm 33 years old and I badly need to see the dentist. My last visit was about 4 years ago. My teeth were in bad shape then but now they're in even worse. I had a not so sensitive female dentist who made me feel terrible. She lectured me and told me it was going to get worse and just made me feel really bad. So after I got a cleaning, I never went back. Now I have plaque build up again on my 3 lower bottom teeth and what looks like severe periodontal disease. My gums are very red and inflamed on the front bottom row. They are loose and not sticking to the teeth anymore. I'm terrible ashamed at the neglect and how they look. I also fear they will either eventually fall out or need to get pulled.
I also have a molar on my left side (that needed a root canal) that eventually just fell out last year. I now have a hole in my mouth where the tooth used to be. I feel like my mouth is one of the worst looking ever and I'm very scared to make that first move and get help. I don't want to be lectured, ridiculed, or made to feel like a dirty filthy person. For me, it's just massive fear. I go near a dentist and I feel nauseous and sick. I want to have a consolation with a dentist and tell them how I feel before I sit down in the chair.
that's my story....
I'm 33 years old and I badly need to see the dentist. My last visit was about 4 years ago. My teeth were in bad shape then but now they're in even worse. I had a not so sensitive female dentist who made me feel terrible. She lectured me and told me it was going to get worse and just made me feel really bad. So after I got a cleaning, I never went back. Now I have plaque build up again on my 3 lower bottom teeth and what looks like severe periodontal disease. My gums are very red and inflamed on the front bottom row. They are loose and not sticking to the teeth anymore. I'm terrible ashamed at the neglect and how they look. I also fear they will either eventually fall out or need to get pulled.
I also have a molar on my left side (that needed a root canal) that eventually just fell out last year. I now have a hole in my mouth where the tooth used to be. I feel like my mouth is one of the worst looking ever and I'm very scared to make that first move and get help. I don't want to be lectured, ridiculed, or made to feel like a dirty filthy person. For me, it's just massive fear. I go near a dentist and I feel nauseous and sick. I want to have a consolation with a dentist and tell them how I feel before I sit down in the chair.
that's my story....