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mego5dzgrc
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Hello! Im new to this site and I am seeking advice. I am hoping that this site can give me some insight to my problem. I am about to get married in 3 weeks to a wonderful loving man with a horrible fear of the dentist. We have been together 5 years and all the while I have tried to encourage him to do to the dentist. His problems are very extensive, most of his teeth are brown and black with decay, some have broken off and now there are black stumps. I have tried to be supportive of his fears while encouraging him to go, but it seems like every time I bring it up he becomes defensive and angry at me. He throws my weight problem back in my face and tells me I am a hypocrite. I am very worried about his health and I am afraid that he will get a horrible infection and land himself in the hospital. The quality of his teeth has declined tremendously in the last month and I want to just make him go, but I know its not possible. I get so angry at him because I have always taken care of my teeth and it was always a very important thing to me. I find myself being embarassed of him when he forgets to cover his mouth when he smiles....and it makes me feel horrible and guilty for being embarassed. How can I encourage him to go without a fight? How will I ever pay for it all? Please help me!