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Hi everyone - glad i found this site!
I have an urgent problem than i can't seem to go forward with.
I'll try to make this brief as it is decades now!
Always 'hated' dental work (actually the dentist not the work!) - but a long story. Live in small rural town, no choices, bad advice, lack of 'lots of money' for certain treatment, etc.
anyway, i decided to get a bunch of dental work done i have needed - wear a partial that i wanted replaced with something permanent. But first, my problem.
Almost 3 weeks ago i lost a filling in a bottom wisdom tooth. The 'tooth' was mostly filling, and there's not much tooth left, and down to the gum line. Dentist said it must be extracted. I've had teeth extracted before and swore i'd never do it again (though i had no problems - well, not much).
The first were down 20 or so years ago. i was young, and not suffering from panic attacks and severe anxiety now. The oral surgeon gave me a pill (don't remember what) for the night before - which knocked me right out, and take one in the morning before the appointment. I was pretty calm, just a feeling of dread (plus not wanting to lose a tooth!). i was 'put out'. The surgeon had to carry me from the chair to the recovery room where i stayed about an hour because i wouldn't wake up. Eventually i was 'awake' enough for my mom to get me to the car and go home. I was pretty much out until the next day. - all i have is brief rememberances of being hungry but my tooth kept bleeding for hours and i hate that gauze in my mouth. I was hungry but couldn't eat due to the tooth (and because i really hadn't eaten the day before due to anxiety). The next day i was 'fine'. A few years later i needed another extracted. I got no pill to take, but wasn't overly nervous. I woke up after and went home and was generally alert. However, the dentist called me the next day to see if i was 'all right'. 'Why?' i asked. He said i was so agitated, he thought he would have to sit on my lap to pull the tooth out. Hm...I do remember waking up at one point, but only a split second. But hate the blood and the gauze for hours and hours. (i got a little partial to wear). Years later yet another had to be pulled out. (apparently all my roots are u-shaped, and i seem to lose fillings or teeth break down to the gum line).
A few years later, a third trip. Same oral surgeon. Really didn't want this done - a valium and i was on a few other drugs for things. When i got there he told me he could not put me 'out' due to the drugs. Might have been the steroids or the potassium tablets, i'm not sure. I travelled several towns, was under stress and i just said 'pull them out then'. 20 shots of novocaine later he did it. It was nothing really. I felt nothing (had nitrous), didn't 'hear' anything, wasn't aware of stitches (i'm needle phobic). However, i burst into tears after - relief tears. But the bleeding and gauze was worse for me and i hated it. First time also that a tooth hurt so bad after - needed pain medication, and my face swelled up. Still, i thought i was better than being 'out'.
Well, here i am with my current dilemma. No, i don't want the tooth extracted, but he says i have no choice. One reason the appointment isn't made yet, is i have no one to bring me there and back yet.
But i'm so terrified, i have nightmares about it, and i wake up and the first thing on my mind is "Am i getting it pulled out today"? and i'm in a very horrid mood for hours. Every day i'm obsessing over all the negatives.
Finally i called one oral surgeon (wow! my town now has 2 different ones!) - first said the doctor would use 'iv sedation' - but i got no clear answer on 'what kind' (sodium pentathol? sp?) or what??? She said
i would be able to respond. She just said 'things have changed over the years. they are much improved'. But that is all i got. I gave her a list of the drugs i take, a pill for anxiety and antidepressants (which don't stop the panic attacks or the Awful General Anxiety) - and she said those would be fine. She just said to let them know if take something like valium or ativan before i go. She also said no food or drink after 8pm the evening before, even if my appointment is at 11:00AM. Why?
The next oral surgeon i talked to (receptionist) basically said the same thing (ie - no details on what the iv sedation is) - and said no food or drink after midnight.
Why the difference in food or drink?
I'd be so nervous i probably wouldn't eat the whole day before.
I'm also a very tiny person at only 93lbs.
So, i'm very worried about the whole IV sedation thing. Is it really different from 20 years ago?
Will the wisdom tooth cause even more bleeding and gross gauze way at the back of my mouth? (i don't think i could stand it!).
I need to know these things because if i find a ride i want to get there so i stop dwelling and obsessing over all the horrid things i imagine.
I'm really looking forward to 'fixing my whole mouth' (well, the outcome, not the work!).
I wish i could find a dentist who uses a 'water laser' or air abrasion but we don't have any around where i live.
but first, the extraction. I really can't seem to face it right now. Can someone help me?????
Sorry this is long, but some background info i thought would help.
Thanks *anyone*.
AnneTerese
I have an urgent problem than i can't seem to go forward with.
I'll try to make this brief as it is decades now!
Always 'hated' dental work (actually the dentist not the work!) - but a long story. Live in small rural town, no choices, bad advice, lack of 'lots of money' for certain treatment, etc.
anyway, i decided to get a bunch of dental work done i have needed - wear a partial that i wanted replaced with something permanent. But first, my problem.
Almost 3 weeks ago i lost a filling in a bottom wisdom tooth. The 'tooth' was mostly filling, and there's not much tooth left, and down to the gum line. Dentist said it must be extracted. I've had teeth extracted before and swore i'd never do it again (though i had no problems - well, not much).
The first were down 20 or so years ago. i was young, and not suffering from panic attacks and severe anxiety now. The oral surgeon gave me a pill (don't remember what) for the night before - which knocked me right out, and take one in the morning before the appointment. I was pretty calm, just a feeling of dread (plus not wanting to lose a tooth!). i was 'put out'. The surgeon had to carry me from the chair to the recovery room where i stayed about an hour because i wouldn't wake up. Eventually i was 'awake' enough for my mom to get me to the car and go home. I was pretty much out until the next day. - all i have is brief rememberances of being hungry but my tooth kept bleeding for hours and i hate that gauze in my mouth. I was hungry but couldn't eat due to the tooth (and because i really hadn't eaten the day before due to anxiety). The next day i was 'fine'. A few years later i needed another extracted. I got no pill to take, but wasn't overly nervous. I woke up after and went home and was generally alert. However, the dentist called me the next day to see if i was 'all right'. 'Why?' i asked. He said i was so agitated, he thought he would have to sit on my lap to pull the tooth out. Hm...I do remember waking up at one point, but only a split second. But hate the blood and the gauze for hours and hours. (i got a little partial to wear). Years later yet another had to be pulled out. (apparently all my roots are u-shaped, and i seem to lose fillings or teeth break down to the gum line).

A few years later, a third trip. Same oral surgeon. Really didn't want this done - a valium and i was on a few other drugs for things. When i got there he told me he could not put me 'out' due to the drugs. Might have been the steroids or the potassium tablets, i'm not sure. I travelled several towns, was under stress and i just said 'pull them out then'. 20 shots of novocaine later he did it. It was nothing really. I felt nothing (had nitrous), didn't 'hear' anything, wasn't aware of stitches (i'm needle phobic). However, i burst into tears after - relief tears. But the bleeding and gauze was worse for me and i hated it. First time also that a tooth hurt so bad after - needed pain medication, and my face swelled up. Still, i thought i was better than being 'out'.
Well, here i am with my current dilemma. No, i don't want the tooth extracted, but he says i have no choice. One reason the appointment isn't made yet, is i have no one to bring me there and back yet.
But i'm so terrified, i have nightmares about it, and i wake up and the first thing on my mind is "Am i getting it pulled out today"? and i'm in a very horrid mood for hours. Every day i'm obsessing over all the negatives.
Finally i called one oral surgeon (wow! my town now has 2 different ones!) - first said the doctor would use 'iv sedation' - but i got no clear answer on 'what kind' (sodium pentathol? sp?) or what??? She said
i would be able to respond. She just said 'things have changed over the years. they are much improved'. But that is all i got. I gave her a list of the drugs i take, a pill for anxiety and antidepressants (which don't stop the panic attacks or the Awful General Anxiety) - and she said those would be fine. She just said to let them know if take something like valium or ativan before i go. She also said no food or drink after 8pm the evening before, even if my appointment is at 11:00AM. Why?
The next oral surgeon i talked to (receptionist) basically said the same thing (ie - no details on what the iv sedation is) - and said no food or drink after midnight.
Why the difference in food or drink?
I'd be so nervous i probably wouldn't eat the whole day before.
I'm also a very tiny person at only 93lbs.
So, i'm very worried about the whole IV sedation thing. Is it really different from 20 years ago?
Will the wisdom tooth cause even more bleeding and gross gauze way at the back of my mouth? (i don't think i could stand it!).
I need to know these things because if i find a ride i want to get there so i stop dwelling and obsessing over all the horrid things i imagine.
I'm really looking forward to 'fixing my whole mouth' (well, the outcome, not the work!).
I wish i could find a dentist who uses a 'water laser' or air abrasion but we don't have any around where i live.
but first, the extraction. I really can't seem to face it right now. Can someone help me?????
Sorry this is long, but some background info i thought would help.
Thanks *anyone*.
AnneTerese