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doomflower
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- Apr 29, 2006
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Well...the countdown is truly on, now. In 12 hours, I'll have my first dental appointment in 16 years.
I'm a little nervous...a bit of butterflies, admittedly, but I'm nowhere near panic. This is the first appointment in 16 years that I actually intend to keep! I worked all day today, and I fully plan on returning to work on Friday.
Even though I haven't yet gone to the appointment, I'm already feeling a tremendous sense of relief, because I know I'm making the right decision. The *only* way to get over a phobia is to confront it head on. While 'taking the plunge' seems to be a good method for some, I've discovered that this wasn't the method that ultimately worked for me. It's less of a shell-shock to take small steps toward the goal, and count each panic-free step as a victory. Some steps needed to be repeated a few times over the years. It's been a long road.
I called my therapist today and let her know I had made an appointment, and she was pretty surprised to say the least! She's been a big support to me over the last 4 years. And the company on this forum has helped me overcome the barriers of fear, as well.
At this point, I feel about as ready as I'll ever be.
I'm a little nervous...a bit of butterflies, admittedly, but I'm nowhere near panic. This is the first appointment in 16 years that I actually intend to keep! I worked all day today, and I fully plan on returning to work on Friday.
Even though I haven't yet gone to the appointment, I'm already feeling a tremendous sense of relief, because I know I'm making the right decision. The *only* way to get over a phobia is to confront it head on. While 'taking the plunge' seems to be a good method for some, I've discovered that this wasn't the method that ultimately worked for me. It's less of a shell-shock to take small steps toward the goal, and count each panic-free step as a victory. Some steps needed to be repeated a few times over the years. It's been a long road.
I called my therapist today and let her know I had made an appointment, and she was pretty surprised to say the least! She's been a big support to me over the last 4 years. And the company on this forum has helped me overcome the barriers of fear, as well.
At this point, I feel about as ready as I'll ever be.