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totallyparanoid
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I am 33 years old and have not needed any dental surgery for at least 15 years (maybe longer) but I have all these fears. Even though I know they're kind of irrational, I can't help them.
1. The dentist I am registered with is evil and the last time I went to her I ended up in tears and having to double my medication for anxiety. Even though last time and this time I managed to get in with my husband's dentist at the same pratice, I always fear that I won't be able to or that the other dentist will see me and demand I go to her. Also that I can't ask outright to change permanently because there won't be space and because there is a shortage of NHS dentists I might lose my place altogether if I start being assertive.
2. Afraid that because of swapping round dentists kind of unofficially that the dentist will miss problems I might have and let them get worse.
3. Afraid that because I am on the NHS dentists don't care about my teeth and will let them get worse because I don't pay for my treatment. Feeling that the dentist might be lying when he says my teeth are fine.
4. Because my teeth are not 100% pristine I fear that they are rotting away or going to fall out. Feeling that whatever I do to help my teeth, it will not be enough.
5. Fear that if I needed a filling or something it would be the beginning of the end and that my teeth were inevitably doomed.
6. Fear of damaging my gums when I brush my teeth and that nothing can stop them receding away.
7. General fear of pain, needles etc.
8. Fear that when I am old I won't have any teeth and that I couldn't bear that.
9. Fear that if my daughter is not brushing her teeth properly it will be all my fault.
Sometimes I just spend ludicrously large amounts of time worrying about my teeth and gums, to the point of thinking that life is not worth enjoying because of it.
1. The dentist I am registered with is evil and the last time I went to her I ended up in tears and having to double my medication for anxiety. Even though last time and this time I managed to get in with my husband's dentist at the same pratice, I always fear that I won't be able to or that the other dentist will see me and demand I go to her. Also that I can't ask outright to change permanently because there won't be space and because there is a shortage of NHS dentists I might lose my place altogether if I start being assertive.
2. Afraid that because of swapping round dentists kind of unofficially that the dentist will miss problems I might have and let them get worse.
3. Afraid that because I am on the NHS dentists don't care about my teeth and will let them get worse because I don't pay for my treatment. Feeling that the dentist might be lying when he says my teeth are fine.
4. Because my teeth are not 100% pristine I fear that they are rotting away or going to fall out. Feeling that whatever I do to help my teeth, it will not be enough.
5. Fear that if I needed a filling or something it would be the beginning of the end and that my teeth were inevitably doomed.
6. Fear of damaging my gums when I brush my teeth and that nothing can stop them receding away.
7. General fear of pain, needles etc.
8. Fear that when I am old I won't have any teeth and that I couldn't bear that.
9. Fear that if my daughter is not brushing her teeth properly it will be all my fault.
Sometimes I just spend ludicrously large amounts of time worrying about my teeth and gums, to the point of thinking that life is not worth enjoying because of it.