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Kinndy
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- Apr 8, 2013
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Hi, I'm new to the site, but after reading many posts finally mustered the courage to post my situation.
I'm 20 years old, and after years of neglect to my oral health, I'm just now seeing the rapid damage it's having on my teeth. As a child I was not forced into practicing good oral hygiene, and often avoided it because I thought it was a waste of time. I wish I could kick my younger self in the rear now.
At about 13-14 years old, my father had decent dental insurance, and began to take me to regular dentist visits, the dentist of course was in shock of my condition at such a young age, and was concerned for the health of my gums. He told me then at age 16 or so that my teeth would probably only make it to age 30. This did not help me develop good hygiene though, as it only made me more depressed, and at such a young age I just said, what is the point. In order to begin repairing my damage, I needed braces to straighten the teeth in order to be worked on properly. Getting braces with hurting gums, and decaying teeth was what pushed me into complete anxiety and fear for my teeth. I then had my Orthodontist, and my dentist barking down my throat about my oral hygiene habits, and it made me just want to give up.
I am now 20 years old, out of the house and on my own, and have not been to the dentist since I left my parent's house(roughly 2 years). I drink ALOT Of soda, which is the main contributor to my current state of my teeth. I've been drinking soda everyday since I was roughly 9-10 years old. Even knowing it's a problem, I can't seem to find the strength to stop. My teeth are now beginning to chip, and it's making life harder. I have never smiled with my teeth, and avoid talking to people in fear of them seeing my teeth. I do have a loving boyfriend, who has been with me for two years, but I do not have the courage to tell him my situation and fears, and I don't think he has a clue either. He has however noticed my growing depression and when he asks me about it, I always lie about it.
I guess really what's holding me back from making an appointment is how ashamed I am, my dentist is a decent guy and a great dentist, and I know when he tells me about my situation straight up, he is only being honest, but It's just things I can't handle to hear. I am currently working a part time job, and not making much money, so I'm not even sure I could afford the work I need to have done after I made the appointment for a checkup. I don't want to end up having my teeth pulled at such a young age, and I fear that it will have to be done before I'm age 30.
I look in the mirror every time I pass one, and just want to cry. My gums are still painful, but are doing much better than my younger years, as I now practice decent oral hygiene. The depression and anxiety is driving me under, any advice or others who have survived who don't mind sharing would be greatly appreciated.
I'm 20 years old, and after years of neglect to my oral health, I'm just now seeing the rapid damage it's having on my teeth. As a child I was not forced into practicing good oral hygiene, and often avoided it because I thought it was a waste of time. I wish I could kick my younger self in the rear now.
At about 13-14 years old, my father had decent dental insurance, and began to take me to regular dentist visits, the dentist of course was in shock of my condition at such a young age, and was concerned for the health of my gums. He told me then at age 16 or so that my teeth would probably only make it to age 30. This did not help me develop good hygiene though, as it only made me more depressed, and at such a young age I just said, what is the point. In order to begin repairing my damage, I needed braces to straighten the teeth in order to be worked on properly. Getting braces with hurting gums, and decaying teeth was what pushed me into complete anxiety and fear for my teeth. I then had my Orthodontist, and my dentist barking down my throat about my oral hygiene habits, and it made me just want to give up.
I am now 20 years old, out of the house and on my own, and have not been to the dentist since I left my parent's house(roughly 2 years). I drink ALOT Of soda, which is the main contributor to my current state of my teeth. I've been drinking soda everyday since I was roughly 9-10 years old. Even knowing it's a problem, I can't seem to find the strength to stop. My teeth are now beginning to chip, and it's making life harder. I have never smiled with my teeth, and avoid talking to people in fear of them seeing my teeth. I do have a loving boyfriend, who has been with me for two years, but I do not have the courage to tell him my situation and fears, and I don't think he has a clue either. He has however noticed my growing depression and when he asks me about it, I always lie about it.
I guess really what's holding me back from making an appointment is how ashamed I am, my dentist is a decent guy and a great dentist, and I know when he tells me about my situation straight up, he is only being honest, but It's just things I can't handle to hear. I am currently working a part time job, and not making much money, so I'm not even sure I could afford the work I need to have done after I made the appointment for a checkup. I don't want to end up having my teeth pulled at such a young age, and I fear that it will have to be done before I'm age 30.
I look in the mirror every time I pass one, and just want to cry. My gums are still painful, but are doing much better than my younger years, as I now practice decent oral hygiene. The depression and anxiety is driving me under, any advice or others who have survived who don't mind sharing would be greatly appreciated.