Welcome! This is an online support group for anyone who is very afraid of dentistry or who suffers with dental phobia. Please note that this is NOT a general dental forum! You can find a list of them here.
There's a section of the forum that is just for dentist recommendations. I found the section that's specifically for California (you need to be logged in to see it). If you can't find something close there, I would suggest calling around to dentists and asking if they are phobic friendly. Also check the dentist reviews on their websites and other social media outlets. Good Luck!