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Severe gum recession and loose front tooth

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Sandra 88

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Hello
i have recently come across this group and I am so grateful to see I am not the only one feeling as I do - I am so petrified of the dentist. I have allowed my teeth to get into such a bad way how can I ever show them to a dentist. I have 3 broken teeth and receding gums and now my front upper tooth has twisted and is loose. I can hardly eat at the moment and hate it all so much. i just know they will say tooth has to come out - I can’t just have a gap there - I just cry whenever I think about it. I just don’t know what to do I know I need help but am so scared
 
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Hi Sandra88,

sorry to read about your situation. Your post is very short, but there is so much panic coming through it. For now, please try to stay kind to yourself and slow down a bit. It's so easy to imagine the worst case scenario and to spiral down in all kinds of negative thoughts. For now: how much lose is your front tooth and since when? And what is it that makes you so scared about the dentist in the first place?

All the best wishes
 
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Hi @Sandra88 :welcome:

Thank you so much for posting here, that must have been an incredibly difficult thing to do when even the thought of the d-word leaves you in sheer terror.

The good news is that there are more and more dentists who are keenly aware of people's apprehensions, and who are keen to help and turn their perception of dentistry around. @Enarete was asking what makes you so scared about the dentist in the first place, and I was wondering the same thing? There can be many reasons why people are scared of the dentist, and it helps to know what the fear is about.

With regards to your fear of being left with a gap and unable to face the world - it is almost always possible to replace a missing tooth on the spot, at least with a temporary solution - so it's unlikely that you would be left toothless.

Anyway, a very warm welcome and thanks for joining :grouphug:
 
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Sandra 88

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Thank you so much for your reply. My teeth are so bad I just don’t know what could be done. Years ago I went to see a dentist as I had bad toothache. He basically made me feel so bad about my teeth and said i would lose them and nothing could stop it. I have never been back. I only have myself to blame I know. My gum recession at the front is very bad and my front tooth is now loose. I don’t smile properly as I don’t want anyone to see my receding gums. I have 3 broken teeth which again I don’t know what they could do. I plucked up the courage to actually tell my partner some of this after posting on here at the weekend - he was so understanding but I can’t actually show him the true extent. I know I can’t be in denial for much longer but I am just so scared of it all.
 
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Sandra 88

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I found a dentist near me who I could send a photo so I did and also said about my fears. They have replied saying they could see me for an examination, 2 radiographs, soft tissue check , examination of my gums and also an oral cancer screening - is that normal ? I am now terrified they have seen evidence of oral cancer in the photos - is this a standard thing ?
 
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@Sandra 88 yes, the oral cancer screening is a standard thing - nothing to do with the photos, so no need to panic ?

You said that you explained about your fears - what was the dentist's reaction? It's so important (especially when you have a phobia of dentists) to find someone you get along with really well. So we usually recommend making the first appointment just for a chat.

We've collected some information on how to find a phobic-friendly dentist here:

 
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Sandra 88

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So I had a call this morning from the dentist’s receptionist. I just cried my way through the call but she was very lovely and patient with me. I have actually booked an appt for 22 march - I am so terrified but I know I have to do this. Apparently I am seeing a dentist who is good with phobic people like me.
 
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Well done @Sandra 88 :respect:

Did you explain that your tooth is loose and that you can hardly eat? Perhaps they will be able to see you sooner... some dentists have cancellation lists, so if somebody cancels, they will let people on the cancellation list know... worth a try if you would like to see them sooner.

Good to hear that the dentist comes recommended as being good with phobic people ?. You might be able to find out more about them by googling for their name, and maybe even find a photo and a description of them?.
 
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