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Ladywriter1968
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As per my other threads and helpful advice, it still stresses me out about my tooth, as it hurts at times as well, and with hospital saying do this, do that, do the other first. I feel like caught between devil and the deep blue sea. I wanted to get in again this week to see own dentist to ask further advice but was fully booked. The good thing is, its 2days before my 2nd hospital appointment with the dentist there.
What I am also angry about is the fact I didnt ask the person that examined me if he was a dentist or the actual oral surgeon written on my letter. He didnt introduce himself and I didnt think to ask. I will next week when I go. You know how some times you never see the actual person named on the letter but a fill - in basically. OK, the joke (fill in) yeah quite funny said same to husband, is he the actual oral surgeon or just a fill in.LOL. That made me laugh at least.
I actually rang up a private place in Harley street, but OMG, I cant afford that kind of money. Just for a consultation privately its £200, thats before they even done anything. so I will have to stick with the NHS. Even though its long winded and can wait forever. If I had the money I would have just gone private to get the thing over and done with.
My brother in law said he was in the hospital awake 4.5 hours and had 3 teeth pulled. My friend was there 1.5hrs just to have a small filling. Why was they there so long, because its a training hospital. and the ones being trained had to keep verifying every single thing they did and this took ages. I can understand they need to learn but to expect a patient to lay there and keep their mouth open for over 4hrs. I honestly dont know how he coped with it.
People say of 2nd opinion but its not so easy, you cant choose at hospital of 2nd opinions I dont think on NHS, they would say if you want that then you would have to pay privately. Since NHS is very limited anyway. I do feel that some times though with NHS you get passed off really. Obviously with private treatment they would treat you like a king or queen. But in NHS there is no real consideration of trying to calm the patient and some times you feel they dont even listen. You sit in room with lots of others like cattle. While you sit there nervous. I am talking 30 people upwards. Plus its on the 23rd floor as well. You all crowd into the lift if you can fit into it that it.
I see these private ones on line and it looks so calm and clean and nice. And then I realise that unfortunately, not all of us have that kind of money and have to settle for 2nd best. I know the nhs is in crisis really.
I mean, this is another area, but when I had chest pains and was in A and E before they lost my blood test results which meant I had to be there for over 4hrs when I could have been there for less. The doctor sent up to the lab and they lost them, she ended up doing it herself. So I had to have more blood tests before I left and felt like a pin cushion. Even the doctor was angry with the lab for losing them. It had to go to like 4 departments before reaching the lab. This other doctor told me to wait in this room, and then I waited, and waited, then I came out and saw him and said I have been waiting and waiting. He said, where? I said, in the room where you told me to wait and you never came back, he didn't even apologise or nothing. He didn't seem to care much really. And said, well you can wait over there and he sat down at his computer. Its only because I am out spoken, if I was a quiet person I would have been in that room for hours forgotten about. I had to push to get anything done even though I had chest pains.
Well now I have moaned and vented. The NHS is very good for some things. Like when had physio on my back, 8wk sessions free. Was very good. and when I had a scan on my heart before that was very good. But on other things they seem poor.
What I am also angry about is the fact I didnt ask the person that examined me if he was a dentist or the actual oral surgeon written on my letter. He didnt introduce himself and I didnt think to ask. I will next week when I go. You know how some times you never see the actual person named on the letter but a fill - in basically. OK, the joke (fill in) yeah quite funny said same to husband, is he the actual oral surgeon or just a fill in.LOL. That made me laugh at least.
I actually rang up a private place in Harley street, but OMG, I cant afford that kind of money. Just for a consultation privately its £200, thats before they even done anything. so I will have to stick with the NHS. Even though its long winded and can wait forever. If I had the money I would have just gone private to get the thing over and done with.
My brother in law said he was in the hospital awake 4.5 hours and had 3 teeth pulled. My friend was there 1.5hrs just to have a small filling. Why was they there so long, because its a training hospital. and the ones being trained had to keep verifying every single thing they did and this took ages. I can understand they need to learn but to expect a patient to lay there and keep their mouth open for over 4hrs. I honestly dont know how he coped with it.
People say of 2nd opinion but its not so easy, you cant choose at hospital of 2nd opinions I dont think on NHS, they would say if you want that then you would have to pay privately. Since NHS is very limited anyway. I do feel that some times though with NHS you get passed off really. Obviously with private treatment they would treat you like a king or queen. But in NHS there is no real consideration of trying to calm the patient and some times you feel they dont even listen. You sit in room with lots of others like cattle. While you sit there nervous. I am talking 30 people upwards. Plus its on the 23rd floor as well. You all crowd into the lift if you can fit into it that it.
I see these private ones on line and it looks so calm and clean and nice. And then I realise that unfortunately, not all of us have that kind of money and have to settle for 2nd best. I know the nhs is in crisis really.
I mean, this is another area, but when I had chest pains and was in A and E before they lost my blood test results which meant I had to be there for over 4hrs when I could have been there for less. The doctor sent up to the lab and they lost them, she ended up doing it herself. So I had to have more blood tests before I left and felt like a pin cushion. Even the doctor was angry with the lab for losing them. It had to go to like 4 departments before reaching the lab. This other doctor told me to wait in this room, and then I waited, and waited, then I came out and saw him and said I have been waiting and waiting. He said, where? I said, in the room where you told me to wait and you never came back, he didn't even apologise or nothing. He didn't seem to care much really. And said, well you can wait over there and he sat down at his computer. Its only because I am out spoken, if I was a quiet person I would have been in that room for hours forgotten about. I had to push to get anything done even though I had chest pains.
Well now I have moaned and vented. The NHS is very good for some things. Like when had physio on my back, 8wk sessions free. Was very good. and when I had a scan on my heart before that was very good. But on other things they seem poor.