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parsleycat
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- Collegeville PA
Hello all. 37yo non smoking male here. Solid bi annual recipient of professional cleanings, brush 2x a day (previously with electric, now with ultra soft brush), floss 1x a day and waterpike 2-3 times a day. I find myself suffering a life shattering anxiety over a few dental appointments, my last two.
My second to last appt. By this time, I've been going very normally to get regular prophylaxis and exam. Ive been told i have a few 2-3mm pockets, but to floss etc (which i was doing). I am actually shocked when this dentist (1 of 4 ive never met in a rotation) tells me i need one of my front teeth removed and an implant put in. This just blows my mind as it comes out of the blue...my previous dentists have never said anything about this tooth and the current one makes this judgement after looking at my last xray. This sent me into a big hygiene tizzy. Even though my brushing and flossing was on point (ive never gone to bed in 3-4 years without flossing brushing), somehow I was "needing" some radical treatment.
At this point I commit to getting a water pik and supplementing my routine with irrigation. I irrigate with non alcoholic mouthwash and water mixture religiously for 5 mo ths. I write off what the dentist said about extraction as a revenue generating recommendation. By this time the office has a very established pattern of upselling, from optional fluoride constantly pushing ortho. I start to really take notice of my mouth and gums and develop a complex, fixating on my gums, concerned about the recession I do have, but which my previous dentist never mentioned.
Fast forward to today. Ive switched to a dentist I feel like I might trust better and dont say anything about the tooth the previous dentitst said needed extraction. He says that he can shave it down and crown it to look better (its buccally versioned due to trauma/surgery/braces feom childhood) but that it didnt need anything and waS healthy. However, im told at this appointment that i mow have almost a full mouth of 4-6mm pockets with some boneloss on the xray. Im absolutely crushed. I was told i needed a deep cleaning and to go on a perio maintenance rputine.
Ahhh, my heart dropped. Im still struggling to cope with this because i dont understand how im in this position. I do everything right and super consistently. But i guess I'm supposed to ask some questions...
1. Is it common for periodontitis to stabilize after an srp? I already live the proper dental hygiene routine...i feel like i really just need good hope that enduring the body horror of srp will lead to me being stable and that i have some control over the outcome.
2. I havent been to a general practicioner for a very long time. Decades! Should I be super concerned that I have something else systemic like diabetes? Im in decent shape and exercise quite a bit but my mom is prediabetic. I'm just a little confused how i can have such bad gum disease and bone loss with my commitment to my hygiene.
3. My dad had crappy gums/teeth. I think he even had a graft done. I dont think he ever flossed but If its genetic...is there any point? It just makes me feel so hopeless...
4. My dentist didnt seem to ask for previous xrays or probe readings to see what the progress of my mouth was since last time. Should i be concerned? (As if i could be more concerned than i am right now)
Im emotionally exhausted...this has already ruined me for my best friends wedding tomorrow and I have nothing but incredible anxiety up until my srp on monday. Any help or success stories would be super great
My second to last appt. By this time, I've been going very normally to get regular prophylaxis and exam. Ive been told i have a few 2-3mm pockets, but to floss etc (which i was doing). I am actually shocked when this dentist (1 of 4 ive never met in a rotation) tells me i need one of my front teeth removed and an implant put in. This just blows my mind as it comes out of the blue...my previous dentists have never said anything about this tooth and the current one makes this judgement after looking at my last xray. This sent me into a big hygiene tizzy. Even though my brushing and flossing was on point (ive never gone to bed in 3-4 years without flossing brushing), somehow I was "needing" some radical treatment.
At this point I commit to getting a water pik and supplementing my routine with irrigation. I irrigate with non alcoholic mouthwash and water mixture religiously for 5 mo ths. I write off what the dentist said about extraction as a revenue generating recommendation. By this time the office has a very established pattern of upselling, from optional fluoride constantly pushing ortho. I start to really take notice of my mouth and gums and develop a complex, fixating on my gums, concerned about the recession I do have, but which my previous dentist never mentioned.
Fast forward to today. Ive switched to a dentist I feel like I might trust better and dont say anything about the tooth the previous dentitst said needed extraction. He says that he can shave it down and crown it to look better (its buccally versioned due to trauma/surgery/braces feom childhood) but that it didnt need anything and waS healthy. However, im told at this appointment that i mow have almost a full mouth of 4-6mm pockets with some boneloss on the xray. Im absolutely crushed. I was told i needed a deep cleaning and to go on a perio maintenance rputine.
Ahhh, my heart dropped. Im still struggling to cope with this because i dont understand how im in this position. I do everything right and super consistently. But i guess I'm supposed to ask some questions...
1. Is it common for periodontitis to stabilize after an srp? I already live the proper dental hygiene routine...i feel like i really just need good hope that enduring the body horror of srp will lead to me being stable and that i have some control over the outcome.
2. I havent been to a general practicioner for a very long time. Decades! Should I be super concerned that I have something else systemic like diabetes? Im in decent shape and exercise quite a bit but my mom is prediabetic. I'm just a little confused how i can have such bad gum disease and bone loss with my commitment to my hygiene.
3. My dad had crappy gums/teeth. I think he even had a graft done. I dont think he ever flossed but If its genetic...is there any point? It just makes me feel so hopeless...
4. My dentist didnt seem to ask for previous xrays or probe readings to see what the progress of my mouth was since last time. Should i be concerned? (As if i could be more concerned than i am right now)
Im emotionally exhausted...this has already ruined me for my best friends wedding tomorrow and I have nothing but incredible anxiety up until my srp on monday. Any help or success stories would be super great