C
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Hello All!
I am sorry that I haven't been very active lately, but it is almost the end of the semester, and I have done 2 research papers in the past 8 days. I am almost drained. Lol.
As some may or may not know, I have been in a relationship for a little over a month now with an amazing young man. He truly treats me like a princess, and I couldn't ask for more. As I have also mentioned in a previous post, we have a question game we like to play. The rules are simple; one asks a question, both respond. No question is limited, and you have to tell the truth. The only way a person can pass on a question is if it is offensive or too personal. He has asked me before what my biggest fear is. Since I am posting on our lovely forum, most of you can guess what it is. I told hims spiders. I lied. Kind of. I am afraid of spiders, but he said "biggest" fear. Since, he has made "funny" references about spiders towards me. I was not offended, because it doesn't bother me too badly, because lots of people are openly afraid of spiders.
Today, he mentioned that he needed to see the dentist soon for a cleaning and exam. All that I could say was "Oh." and quickly change the subject. Then, I received an email on my phone, so I checked it with him sitting next to me. It was a message from this forum. Normally, I wouldn't care. This time, I freaked out because I was scared that he would see it. I'm not sure if he did, but I am doubting it because he never mentioned it.
My question is.... Do I tell him the truth about my "biggest" fear? The things that are tripping me up are the fact that he has made jokes about my fear of spiders, and the fact that he likes to talk about all of his feelings, and expects me to also. He relives every date, every moment practically, every time he can. He doesn't understand the concept of "not wanting to talk about" something. If I tell him, he will want to talk about it in grave detail. I know he will just mean good, but I don't know if I am ready for that conversation just yet.
Suggestions?
Thanks guys. PM me if you need me.
With Love, CB
I am sorry that I haven't been very active lately, but it is almost the end of the semester, and I have done 2 research papers in the past 8 days. I am almost drained. Lol.
As some may or may not know, I have been in a relationship for a little over a month now with an amazing young man. He truly treats me like a princess, and I couldn't ask for more. As I have also mentioned in a previous post, we have a question game we like to play. The rules are simple; one asks a question, both respond. No question is limited, and you have to tell the truth. The only way a person can pass on a question is if it is offensive or too personal. He has asked me before what my biggest fear is. Since I am posting on our lovely forum, most of you can guess what it is. I told hims spiders. I lied. Kind of. I am afraid of spiders, but he said "biggest" fear. Since, he has made "funny" references about spiders towards me. I was not offended, because it doesn't bother me too badly, because lots of people are openly afraid of spiders.
Today, he mentioned that he needed to see the dentist soon for a cleaning and exam. All that I could say was "Oh." and quickly change the subject. Then, I received an email on my phone, so I checked it with him sitting next to me. It was a message from this forum. Normally, I wouldn't care. This time, I freaked out because I was scared that he would see it. I'm not sure if he did, but I am doubting it because he never mentioned it.
My question is.... Do I tell him the truth about my "biggest" fear? The things that are tripping me up are the fact that he has made jokes about my fear of spiders, and the fact that he likes to talk about all of his feelings, and expects me to also. He relives every date, every moment practically, every time he can. He doesn't understand the concept of "not wanting to talk about" something. If I tell him, he will want to talk about it in grave detail. I know he will just mean good, but I don't know if I am ready for that conversation just yet.
Suggestions?
Thanks guys. PM me if you need me.
With Love, CB