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Upcoming major work under IV Sedation w/ Midazolam. Please calm me down.

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scuderia

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Hi everyone,

As the title suggests, I'm finally facing something I’ve put off for over a decade: going to the dentist. It’s been more than 10 years since my last visit. In that time, I cracked a molar and—out of sheer fear—never got it checked out.

I’ve always known that my teeth needed serious attention, and deep down, I wanted to eventually get Invisalign. But that was never going to happen unless I got my dental health in order first.

After lots of searching, I found a local dentist who specializes in patients with severe anxiety. Just booking the appointment felt like climbing a mountain. The night before the initial visit, I was crying, gagging, and doing everything in my power to cancel. And this was just the consultation.

But somehow, I made it. I let the staff know ahead of time that I struggle with an intense gag reflex, dental fear, and even a fear of choking during procedures. Thankfully, they were incredibly kind, gentle, and understanding. They made me feel as comfortable as possible during the exam.

The results weren’t great, but not surprising:

I need two root canals (including the cracked molar)​
Several fillings​
A deep cleaning​
Wisdom teeth removal (scheduled separately)​

They also offered IV sedation using Midazolam, which will be paired with Fentanyl. I’ve been prescribed another sedative to take the night before to help me sleep.

Despite all the reassurances, the anxiety is real. My procedure is scheduled for this Thursday, and I’m counting down the days, hours, minutes, and seconds with a mix of dread and determination.

If anyone here has gone through similar procedures—especially under IV sedation—I would deeply appreciate any tips, experiences, or even a few kind words. Just knowing I’m not alone would help a lot.

Thank you all in advance.
 
You’ve done the hard part by going to the initial consultation. Now the easy part is you show up for the appointment and they sedate you via iv sedation and next thing you know you are walking out the door! You will not be conscious even though it is a conscious sedation. I know it doesn’t make sense! lol. You truly won’t remember anything that they have done! I had conscious sedation for a crown and several fillings were replaced from the silver to the white. It took 2 appointments. Both times I was sedated I’m telling you I have no memory of any of it! It is expensive though which To me it was worth it. Now I have a whole new healthy mouth! I go tomorrow for a cleaning and I listen to my iPod and just sit back and relax. Best wishes to you! You can do this!
 
Update: I went through with it and it was GREAT! They gave me nitrous when I got there and was then given the IV. Next thing I knew, I was awake and being ushered out of the chair.

For anyone on the fence about the IV Sedation, PLEASE DO IT! It was a lifesaver for me!
 
What a lovely report, well done @scuderia, give yourself a pat on the back :jump::jump::jump:
You have been really brave doing this. So glad all went well.
 
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