Enarete
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I have an appointment on Thursday and getting numbed plus getting a desensitization fluid painted on a tooth is planned. The numbing is not necessary for the procedure, it's just for me to get used to it since it's one of my fears. It's my 9th visit in the last 6 months.
In the first 2-3 visits my dentist had a brief look before doing what was planned. On visits 4-8 I asked him something about a particular tooth and if he could take a look at it (to delay the procedure a bit) and he would do that first. I have found out this kind of stabilizes me - it's like an anchor that's always the same, there's just the mirror involved, I am familiar with the manner in which he would touch my mouth so it doesn't make me too nervous (I struggle with being touched and the beginning is the worst) and it calms me down and makes me ready for the procedure.
The problem is that I have run out of 'problem'-teeth so I am considering to ask him right away if he could take a look around before he would start with the numbing. And wondering, if he would find it weird?
What do you think? Would it be weird? Or would he take a look anyway without me saying anything? Does your dentist always start with the procedure or takes a look first?
I'm making a big thing out of a small topic right now but this really makes me insecure..
In the first 2-3 visits my dentist had a brief look before doing what was planned. On visits 4-8 I asked him something about a particular tooth and if he could take a look at it (to delay the procedure a bit) and he would do that first. I have found out this kind of stabilizes me - it's like an anchor that's always the same, there's just the mirror involved, I am familiar with the manner in which he would touch my mouth so it doesn't make me too nervous (I struggle with being touched and the beginning is the worst) and it calms me down and makes me ready for the procedure.
The problem is that I have run out of 'problem'-teeth so I am considering to ask him right away if he could take a look around before he would start with the numbing. And wondering, if he would find it weird?
What do you think? Would it be weird? Or would he take a look anyway without me saying anything? Does your dentist always start with the procedure or takes a look first?
I'm making a big thing out of a small topic right now but this really makes me insecure..