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2NERVOUS2GO
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- Nov 11, 2008
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- Liverpool, UK
Hi.
My name is Debbie and I am 44 years old. I have been visiting this forum for some time now and thought I should register and say hello.
I have an appointment (note I have not said 'I am going to...) for this Friday afternoon for an extraction of a broken tooth. This will be the first extraction I have had for over 35 years and I still break out in cold sweats at those I had as a child with metal clamp in mouth, being held down and that dreaded mask .
I have always gone to the dentist for check ups and can cope with the odd filling but do have a gag reflex, probably due to panic. My life long dentist retired (bless him he must have been about 75 but was a darling and understood my fears). The practice has been taken over and this has added to my fears.
The tooth has been broken for 18months and has an abcess underneath which rarely bothers me but can flare up for a few days at at time. This has put me off going even for check ups as I knew what needed doing. I plucked up courage to go to my new dentist who says, because of my fears, I need IV sedation, which he cannot do so referred me to someone in the area who can. I needed a Friday afternoon appointment so my husband could come with me and after a 6 week wait, Friday is the day.
I am not sleeping and fear I am going to refuse to go at the last minute. I am living in my head getting in the car, the drive there, arriving at the dentist, going into the room, sitting in the chair and I feel sick and my heart is beating out my chest.
Can any of you offer me any words of encouragement?? I tell myself to stop being silly, I have had two children and other surgery but I can't seem to overcome this terror that has built up. I must go otherwise I have got myself into this state of panic for nothing.
What is the process. What will happen. How will I feel. How long will it take?
Thank you
My name is Debbie and I am 44 years old. I have been visiting this forum for some time now and thought I should register and say hello.
I have an appointment (note I have not said 'I am going to...) for this Friday afternoon for an extraction of a broken tooth. This will be the first extraction I have had for over 35 years and I still break out in cold sweats at those I had as a child with metal clamp in mouth, being held down and that dreaded mask .
I have always gone to the dentist for check ups and can cope with the odd filling but do have a gag reflex, probably due to panic. My life long dentist retired (bless him he must have been about 75 but was a darling and understood my fears). The practice has been taken over and this has added to my fears.
The tooth has been broken for 18months and has an abcess underneath which rarely bothers me but can flare up for a few days at at time. This has put me off going even for check ups as I knew what needed doing. I plucked up courage to go to my new dentist who says, because of my fears, I need IV sedation, which he cannot do so referred me to someone in the area who can. I needed a Friday afternoon appointment so my husband could come with me and after a 6 week wait, Friday is the day.
I am not sleeping and fear I am going to refuse to go at the last minute. I am living in my head getting in the car, the drive there, arriving at the dentist, going into the room, sitting in the chair and I feel sick and my heart is beating out my chest.
Can any of you offer me any words of encouragement?? I tell myself to stop being silly, I have had two children and other surgery but I can't seem to overcome this terror that has built up. I must go otherwise I have got myself into this state of panic for nothing.
What is the process. What will happen. How will I feel. How long will it take?
Thank you