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Making My Own Mouth Happy and Healthy

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Sorry if this is a bit long-winded, but it has also been long awaited. . .

The Back Story: Last year, when I was finished with my numerous fillings, I promised myself that from then on, I would take much better care of my teeth so that I could avoid having that much work ever necessary again. I really tried hard. I brushed my teeth at least twice a day, I bought expensive prescription strength toothpaste, and I was sure to floss at least once a day. After flossing, I would rinse with a 50/50 water and hydrogen peroxide solution just to help flush out any remaining germs that were hiding in the crevices and prevent any infection from occurring.

At my last cleaning, I was nervous but I went in knowing that I had put in so much time and effort to make my teeth and gums healthy. I was expecting to hear things like "Your teeth look great" or "I can tell you floss everyday" etc. However, I didn't hear anything that nice and instead I was scolded because my wisdom teeth had plaque build-up on them and told them if I plan to keep them (I do, since all 4 are fully erupted, straight, and not causing any issues) then I need to keep them cleaner.

I was devastated.:cry: I had put 6 months of effort in, and yet I still hadn't done a satisfactory job. I felt so ashamed. The hygienist gave me a special toothbrush with a very small head and pointed bristles to use on my wisdom teeth since regular toothbrushes cannot reach all the way back there and clean efficiently. I started using it, and I was appalled at the amount of blood that I was spitting out everytime I brushed around my wisdom teeth. My teeth/gums never bled, except in those areas. I was so disheartened and disgusted with myself, and the entire situation felt hopeless.

BUT TONIGHT
. . .TONIGHT- I went through my entire routine: brush, floss, peroxide rinse, and extra attention to the wisdom teeth- no blood! Not even the tiniest tinge of pink on the bristles!

I feel like now if I can get the nerve up to go to a new practice, I can go in there and confidently say that I do everything in my power to make sure my gums and teeth (even those tricky wisdom ones) are as clean and healthy as they possibly can be. If the dentist/hygienist still tries to lecture me or make me feel bad, then I will know he/she is WRONG and that I deserve to go to a place that will make me feel better about my teeth, not worse.
 
Good for you and you are quite right :jump::jump::jump:
 
If the dentist/hygienist still tries to lecture me or make me feel bad, then I will know he/she is WRONG and that I deserve to go to a place that will make me feel better about my teeth, not worse.

This? Is the long and the short of it! I personally will not tolerate being lectured to. I appreciate information and suggestions and help. Not blame.

Good for you!!:jump:

BH
 
This? Is the long and the short of it! I personally will not tolerate being lectured to. I appreciate information and suggestions and help. Not blame.

Good for you!!:jump:

BH

I have personally never had the experience before of a dentist or hygienist saying nice things about my teeth- even when I thought I was doing a pretty good job of taking care of them. But now I feel positive that I am doing everything possible, and I am hoping that the next time I go for a cleaning (whichever office I end up choosing) they will have good, helpful things to say.
 
Good for you Shamrockerin! You exude a confidence I've never seen before! :jump: There is nothing more disheartening than to work so hard at something and have it go unnoticed or worse criticized. BUT you did manage to take the criticism and use it constructively to better yourself and that is only evidence of the strength of your character. Bravo! :respect:
 
Thanks so much everyone who responded-

I actually contacted the area office that I'd been in email contact with about possible appointment times, and they gave me some dates. I can't do the first available one this month b/c I'll be chaperoning the 7th grade camping trip (lucky me :P) but they have a time in early October so I'm going to try for that one.

Even if I can't, at least I know that I am taking good care of my teeth until I can go back.
 
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