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KrisB
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A couple of months ago I arranged my first dental appointment in what would have been about 5 years; which was a daunting enough task in itself.
I was incredibly nervous for about a week before the check-up and, needless to say, browsing these forums helped tremendously. It's great to see so many honest and truly warming people stick together and help those around them.
Anyway, it's hard to put a finger on why I get so nervous when dentistry is even mentioned, as, it's a mixture of all the bad things that occur in that dreadful chair. Prior to the appointment I was less concerned by the potential pain, as I knew it was only a checkup, but more the embarrassment as I know my teeth are in a bad way.
Even with that in my mind, I was pretty unhappy when she told me I'd need an extraction and 13 fillings! She was a nice enough dentist but I believe she was a bit old-school when it came to telling me off, as she was very demeaning and it only added to my humiliation in front of a very attractive dental nurse.
I had a chat with her about my overall nervousness and she referred me to my local health clinic to get the work done as they can offer me 'gas and air'. I was delighted with this as I'm sure it'll help me when in the chair, but now, I have another check up appointment to start worrying about which'll take place on Tuesday.
I am just as scared as I was last time, as it's a new dentist and it'll be another one to be disgusted and appalled with my teeth. Hopefully she'll be a tad nicer about it and will set about readying me for the future rather than ridiculing the way I treated my teeth in the past.
With me, I'm far more worried with the anticipation of going to the dentist than being in the actual chair, which means, the more appointments I have the worse I'll be. To say I'm bricking it now would be an understatement.
Please help me stop worrying about what will happen! It's completely ruining my Summer!
I was incredibly nervous for about a week before the check-up and, needless to say, browsing these forums helped tremendously. It's great to see so many honest and truly warming people stick together and help those around them.
Anyway, it's hard to put a finger on why I get so nervous when dentistry is even mentioned, as, it's a mixture of all the bad things that occur in that dreadful chair. Prior to the appointment I was less concerned by the potential pain, as I knew it was only a checkup, but more the embarrassment as I know my teeth are in a bad way.
Even with that in my mind, I was pretty unhappy when she told me I'd need an extraction and 13 fillings! She was a nice enough dentist but I believe she was a bit old-school when it came to telling me off, as she was very demeaning and it only added to my humiliation in front of a very attractive dental nurse.
I had a chat with her about my overall nervousness and she referred me to my local health clinic to get the work done as they can offer me 'gas and air'. I was delighted with this as I'm sure it'll help me when in the chair, but now, I have another check up appointment to start worrying about which'll take place on Tuesday.
I am just as scared as I was last time, as it's a new dentist and it'll be another one to be disgusted and appalled with my teeth. Hopefully she'll be a tad nicer about it and will set about readying me for the future rather than ridiculing the way I treated my teeth in the past.
With me, I'm far more worried with the anticipation of going to the dentist than being in the actual chair, which means, the more appointments I have the worse I'll be. To say I'm bricking it now would be an understatement.
Please help me stop worrying about what will happen! It's completely ruining my Summer!