Panic attack at the dentist putting off necessary procedure

[texasrain01]

Hello all,
I am in major need of a root canal i have a tooth that is causing me a lot of pain. However I have been choosing to stay in pain rather than seek out treatment due to paralyzing anxiety. I left the consultation today in tears. The doctor had zero sympathy. When he was explaining the procedure I could already feel myself starting to panic and when I tried to explain my fears I couldn't speak and started to cry. I felt like I couldn't breathe. He said no other questions? I didnt answer and he left me in there for the billing person to come speak to me. I was full on crying. I cant bring myself to schedule this procedure because of how terrified I am. He made me feel dramatic and overreacting but I am literally paralyzed by this anxiety

 

[krlovesherkids777]

Texasrain01,

to DFC. I am so sorry you had this experience.. How awful... First off, you were amazingly courageous to step into that office despite your fears and try to get this done! You should give yourself Alot of credit! Taking the step in, explaining your fears, trying all you can do. I'm sorry you were met with an un empathetic dentist . There are so many dentists out there that will truly care and take their time and not make you feel this way. You deserve to be treated with kindness. Are you in dire pain right now? I hope not too bad. I'm actually so glad you didn't schedule with them , are you going to an endodontist? or dentist? Do have any any other ideas of who to go through? I would check reviews to see who is good with anxiety, and then ask if you can come in for a meet and greet if you have time and mention your anxiety, that gives you a little more feel for the office. Just an idea, it has really helped me. We are glad you are here and you are not alone in this!!

 

[Vaidile]

Texasrain01, I'm seconding the advice to not go back to this dentist if you have any other choice. You were visibly upset and crying and he just ignored you? That's wrong on so many levels. Do not be afraid to shop around and look for someone who will work with you to help you get over your fears, not just expect you to suck it up. I know it's hard, but having a compassionate dentist helps so much! They're out there, you just have to look. Do not settle for someone substandard; you deserve better.

There are some great tips on the main webpage on how to find a great dentist. I found them very helpful in figuring out what to look for and what the right person would be like for me:

https://www.dentalfearcentral.org/help/find-a-dentist/

For what it's worth, a root canal is really not bad if adequately numbed (and if not, you should definitely request for more!). It's lengthy, but mostly quiet and boring. I've had simple fillings that there worse to get through.

 

[jakesmith]

A lot of dentists are willing to prescribe an oral benzo, which are incredibly safe to take once. Way safer than GA. If you aren't already tolerant to benzos, they can help with a future procedure.