Hi Pinky,
Needle phobia is a very natural and even a healthy phobia, it is only natural to want to protect one self from sharp objects.
It is very possible to provide local anesthesia succefully. There are three key issues need to be attended:
1) difficulty seeing or feeling the needle.
2) difficulty with the idea/image of the needle touching the body
3) the chance of passing out.
For the first issue the dentist is responsible. There is no need to see the injection and it is possible to give it without you feeling anything (in some situations you might feel something but certainly not painful nor a sting, more a light pressure).
For the second issue you are responsible. You have to accept the fact that you might feel a certain degree of anxiety , and that you need to accept this experience. That does not mean you allow the dentist to abuse you, it means that you allow yourself to feel the anxiety and contain this feeling.
The third issue can be very easily be dealt with by cooperation between you and your dentist. The passing out is caused by a drastic change in the blood pressure: at first, due to stress the blood pressure is high, and than for a second the blood pressure to the brain drops and we loos the contentious.
What I do with my needle phobic patients is I ask them to activate and stress every muscle in their body for ten seconds (I count to ten) and than totally relax the hall body, and once the body is relaxed I give the anesthesia. This way the blood pressure stays relatively high constantly. It works beautifully.
All the best
