starryeyes
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Hello everyone!
This may be long and rambling and ridiculous, so apologies in advance.
Some background: I'm 32, autistic, and I have panic attacks. I had ten teeth pulled when I was a teenager due to severe crowding, and have been terrified of dental work ever since.
At the very beginning of this month, a chunk of my upper right wisdom tooth broke off while I was eating. I knew I finally had to go in, and I did. No cavities anywhere except for both upper wisdom teeth - the right side had decayed, hence the break.
I am scheduled for wisdom teeth removal in four weeks. Both teeth are fully erupted, no impaction at all. The negative to this is that my insurance will not pay for any sedation, only local anesthesia. If I want deep sedation I'd have to pay almost 1500 USD which I cannot afford.
I am severely anxious about a few issues.
1. Is extraction more likely to be easier and faster since they are both fully erupted? I'm not concerned with the pain during the procedure, but since I'm autistic I have pretty severe sensory issues. Having my head yanked around, hearing any cracks, etc are going to up my anxiety intensely.
2. Am I more likely to have an easier recovery? I want to completely avoid stronger painkillers if possible. I've obsessively read guides on what to avoid after extraction, but the anxiety is still there
3. My right tooth is pretty decayed and now broken, but I am not experiencing any pain or infection. I'm brushing and using mouthwash daily to try and avoid further decay, but I'm still concerned about infection. Is it likely it will start causing me problems while waiting for my appointment (July 27th)?
Thank you so much to anyone who read through this wall of text. Any advice or reassurance will be phenomenal.
This may be long and rambling and ridiculous, so apologies in advance.
Some background: I'm 32, autistic, and I have panic attacks. I had ten teeth pulled when I was a teenager due to severe crowding, and have been terrified of dental work ever since.
At the very beginning of this month, a chunk of my upper right wisdom tooth broke off while I was eating. I knew I finally had to go in, and I did. No cavities anywhere except for both upper wisdom teeth - the right side had decayed, hence the break.
I am scheduled for wisdom teeth removal in four weeks. Both teeth are fully erupted, no impaction at all. The negative to this is that my insurance will not pay for any sedation, only local anesthesia. If I want deep sedation I'd have to pay almost 1500 USD which I cannot afford.
I am severely anxious about a few issues.
1. Is extraction more likely to be easier and faster since they are both fully erupted? I'm not concerned with the pain during the procedure, but since I'm autistic I have pretty severe sensory issues. Having my head yanked around, hearing any cracks, etc are going to up my anxiety intensely.
2. Am I more likely to have an easier recovery? I want to completely avoid stronger painkillers if possible. I've obsessively read guides on what to avoid after extraction, but the anxiety is still there
3. My right tooth is pretty decayed and now broken, but I am not experiencing any pain or infection. I'm brushing and using mouthwash daily to try and avoid further decay, but I'm still concerned about infection. Is it likely it will start causing me problems while waiting for my appointment (July 27th)?
Thank you so much to anyone who read through this wall of text. Any advice or reassurance will be phenomenal.