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ambermarie0824

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so i had multiple teeth extractions on friday since friday i have been in alot of pain so friday i had it done i slept in them that first night woke up the next morning took them out had tooth debris and all that that morning have been on soft food for the past 3 days i took them out today and it hurt so bad i am so miserable and i dont think i can go on living like this anymore i dont feel attractive i dont feel worth it for my boyfriend or anything else i just want to be alone im wanting to just stick to protein shakes because i get food underneath them and everyday it hurts so so bad to take them out i dont know what to do but this is a miserable way for the life of a almost 34 year old female!
 
I am so sorry for you. I had mine extractions done on Thursday and immediate dentures put in. I feel your pain. I slept in mine the first night. I used ice packs alot the 1st 2 days. I also did warm salt water rinses. I took mine out the 2nd night and could hardly get them back in the next morning. Hurt so bad. I liked down and then salt water rinse, put dentures in warm water and got them back in. Sore spots all over. I go back to dentist tomorrow and wow am I glad. Hope there is some relief. Hang in there. I'm with you.
 
Do you ever get used to this not being able to eat or scared they will fall during eating out at a social event so you cover your mouth and go to the restroom because your so embarrassed to be seen because you don't have normal teeth and you feel like you'll never be comfortable or anything ever again!
 
Hi there, I recently had teeth pulled and immediate dentures placed. I am around 4 weeks, actually, nearer 5 weeks since the procedure. So I am quite far ahead of you in this.

Let me first tell you, it gets easier. Don't lose hope!

I have a journal here on the forum. It might be helpful for you to read that. I tried to be as detailed and honest as possible.

From my experience, absolutely forget about eating anything that is not soft. For at least the first 2 weeks. I think I was nearer to around 3 weeks before I could manage anything. The gums are just too tender and raw at this point.

I had to return to the dentist for adjustments because of sore spots. It's all part of the journey and it's totally normal.

The first couple of weeks I'm eating nothing but noodles, soup with bread for dipping, scrambled eggs, omelette. Things that are easy and soft. Arguably a bit boring, but soft 😂

At 3 weeks things are settling down a bit. I began experimenting with biting, and found it to be sore still on the gums, particularly at the front. Not ready for biting anything with much substantial bite force required, yet.

At 4 weeks I'm trying to introduce foods that I might be able to eat. I tried a cheese sandwich, a little butter and cheese. Just bread and cheese. Tried a bite, nope. But chewing feels better. Less gum ache. Tried another bite, this time I'm pushing in, toward the top denture with my top lip. You can also gently press your finger on the top lip. This action helps prevent the top denture lifting at the back as you bite. Now, this technique isn't flawless, nor is it easy. But with practice it works.

Some bone shards work their way out of my gums at this point. That explains why upper left canine area was still looking and feeling worse than the rest. It settles down in a few days.

Week 5+ I'm eating a lot easier now. I can eat harder foods again because things have healed up a whole lot better. Not fully healed yet but things feel a lot better. I bought some cashews and was able to eat them. I tried to eat a pizza, properly by biting. It went very well (previous week I had a pizza but couldn't bite I had to use a knife and fork)

Things get easier but in the beginning it's difficult. I'll help if I can. Read my journal as I mentioned, it might help you.

Edit: I must add that I've watched a lot of videos on YouTube about dentures and wearing dentures. I found a man that was extremely helpful to me. He has a channel named "Dentures Vs Food" and his lessons are some of the best I've found.

A lot of other channels don't explain things like he does. They are more about the cosmetics of the situation and how good the smile looks. This guy actually explains technique and helps you learn how to eat more efficiently with dentures.
 
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i am having the dificultlist time trying to figure out what to eat and what i cant since getting this stupid teeth everyone eats what they want when they want it and im stuck being self concious and going out in public isnt easy anymore i dont know how to handle this at all?
 
I've tried to be as helpful as possible in my previous post. I'm not quite sure how else to help you(?)

You stated you aren't sure what to eat. I had advised soft food in my previous post. I even detailed on a week by week basis.

If you have any questions please, feel free to ask. But I can't help if you don't communicate. Posting that you don't know what to do or that you just can't handle it, isn't helping you out of your situation.
 
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