This is me.. I've been doing the same thing and it's making me insane.. i feel just like you explained. I'm driving myself nuts and am sure I'm going to push my teeth out doing this. I even do it in my sleep ugh. Hope you found help.
Yep. Me too. I now chew gum (like cow my one daughter says) but it gives your OCD tongue something to occupy itself with. I even will sleep with the gum in my mouth.
JUICYFRUIT IN THE bottle of gum and it is still almost $5. And that lasts for maybe two days and then another $5. That get expensive on a budget such as mine.
So, it helps my tongue but now I have chewing issues that I have to....refine. And, I now have a callous on the side of my tongue. It is like have A STONE IN YOUR SHOE.
I have molar removed in my right lower and sometimes it's so bad that my tongue and mouth are burning and swollen. ( look up burning mouth syndrome. It's an affliction too.)
Eating does relieve it. I do use losenges, hard candy, lolly pop etc but I found gum to be the best.
I will just be grateful my the tooth hole is not in the front. It would be even less attractive sticking my tongue through that--- and be very glad for modern dentistry.
And YES!!!! It is thew bridges, braces, crowns, the weird filling's FAULT. It's not mine. I was quite normal before this. I do not have the time or money to be crazy right now and putting the blame on my psycho issues...well no. I reject that. It is not helping so my new reality shall be that .....
We are more enlightened, perceptive and sensitive that the regular run of the mill public. Therefore, we sense irregularities and recognize that the problem was caused by.....well.....not me. Whatever is ticking us off is not my fault.
I CHOOSE to deflect the blame to anyone else but me today.
Tongue. Front and centre.
Knock it off or I WILL pierce you. But probably not.
Then would I
have just on more problem child to deal with.
A problem child and piercing stories rarely turn out well.
btw. I've been "worrying" that hole in my mouth as a wrote this.

This is shame sticker. Shame is good for NOTHING, but to tell you about my dirty little secret let's me use the poor little thing to share.
Shame doesn't get included in discussions because he is usually an unproductive little guy attached to someone who has done nothing to deserve the experience. Shame sticker has a crappy job.
My lorazapam is working now so I will see how it helps me in this regard.
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