Your not alone.
I get really down about my teeth too. I have a few missing teeth at the back, 4 to be exact and those that remain cause me pain. I get very anxious about any suggestion of invasive treatment and although I've been seen by specialist dentists at my local dental hospital, they were very patronizing and trivialized my concerns,
I now have an abscess which a dentist want to refer me back to the hospital, but with the last experience, NO WAY am I going to place myself in a situation that allows them to humiliate me again. Academic snob would describe the specialist well. I'm not as clever as they are but I have my self respect. I may have no option but to sort this tooth out myself.
Dentures have been mentioned to even my bite but nothing definite has been suggested. I feel a complete lost cause, feel very isolated by the attitude of the dental hopital and very depressed at the moment.