fearful angry and full of shame help

[lauralou32]

I just need to talk to someone. My teeth are swollen and falling out. I know I have gum disease. Have not been to dentist in 24 yrs. Always put everyone else in the families needs first now im falling apart. Need advice and a great dentist in the USA det metro area. I am praying someone will read this and help me. Thank You from the heart.

 

[ScaredyCat22]

I just need to talk to someone. My teeth are swollen and falling out. I know I have gum disease. Have not been to dentist in 24 yrs. Always put everyone else in the families needs first now im falling apart. Need advice and a great dentist in the USA det metro area. I am praying someone will read this and help me. Thank You from the heart.

Hi Lauralou, welcome to the forum. have you checked out the page where people have recommended good dentists for nervous patients? there may be one near you

 

[buttrrflygirl]

Hi Lauralou. I figured I'd respond to you on your thread. First, big hugs to you. I totally understand how you are feeling. I too was feeling ashamed, full of anger and self hatred. The best way to get rid of those feelings is to muster up the courage to make that first phone call. I NEVER thought I could do it but once I did I had a sense of relief. I was taking control of those feelings and I believe you can too why not Google dentists in your area. Read their websites. See if they have a section on their website about dental anxiety. Read patient reviews and testimonials. That's how I chose my dentist. Of course you'll be embarrassed when you finally go but trust me, they will not make you feel that way. Everything I've read on here about dentists not being the same as they were 20 some years ago is true. Look at all of us scaredy cats on here and imagine how many more out there who haven't found this forum. Dentists today recognize this and treat their patients accordingly. They truly do want to have your trust and help you.

If you're too afraid to call can someone call for you? They can also explain your situation so they know ahead of time.

I truly believe you can do this! And you are going to feel soooo much better when you do

Anytime you feel you need to talk, I'm here

 

[lauralou32]

Hi, well it's been a year and I'm leaving for my appt. In one hour. I have been crying and anxious all day! 56 yrs old and I'm a mess. My front tooth fell out over the weekend and I said that's it and made the appt.! Please pray for me I'm so scared. Thankful for this site! Thank you all!

 

[ScaredyCat22]

Welcome back Lauralou,
good luck with your appointment!! please come back and tell us how it goes.

 

[FearfulInMA]

Sending good thoughts your way!

 

[Sevena]

It took me a long time from first posting here to going to an appointment too! Better late than never, I always say.

Well done on taking the big first step, and I hope your appointment goes well. Sending you my best wishes

 

[lauralou32]

Welcome back Lauralou,
good luck with your appointment!! please come back and tell us how it goes.

Well I did it! I went to dentist finally after all of these yrs. I have a lot of issues with my teeth but I have started my journey! No have bone loss so I will need parcials top and bottom but at least I will have teeth. Thanks for your kind words of support! I will keep you posted!

 

[ScaredyCat22]

Congratulations on going through with the appointment.
I may be getting a partial denture too. I just had some extractions a week ago.