Haven’t been to dentist in years

[Beth1814]

I haven’t been to the dentist in years and years. I have a very bad mouth. Including two missing front teeth from gum disease. I am terrified that I’m going to get told off for not coming in sooner. Which makes me put it off. Which is stupid and I know is only making it worse. But it’s how my brain copes with it. I also was waiting for government dental coverage, which I am just about able to apply for, which terrifies me. Because it’s go time. I have a hard time communicating with medical professionals. And I’m rambling and not making sense probably. Basically I am hoping I don’t get told off for delaying. And hopefully I find a dentist that won’t force me to get work that’s not covered by the plan.

 

[Enarete]

Hi Beth1814
first of all, what you shared makes perfect sense and sounds very clear to me. You are worried about being told off for not coming in sooner and the fear of this is so strong that it further prevents you from going. This is a spiral that many people who are scared of the dentist experience. With that said, it sounds to me like you have been taking steps and that is great. Even being here is a good first step. I also see how communication with medical professionals may be difficult. Have you found a practice that seems to be good with nervous patients? If so, it may be helpful to send them an email and check waters to make sure they wouldn't judge you. What do you think?